Why does it hurt so much during Ana* S*ex?

Answer 1

Don't listen to these homophobe morons insecure about being hetero, and don't take BIG T's advice on poppers. Sure, they're good temporarily for a rush during sex, and can help dialate your hole for penetration. But they stress your heart making it pump harder and faster, they kill a lot of brain cells with every snort too, and if you use the stuff enough, you'll wind up having a hard time getting your own bone up. A couple drinks or some mary jane is best if you need to use something to get you in the mood.

Add some foreplay to your sex, you can't dialate enough for penetration if you're tight and uptight, and especially if your buddy is hung. You should have a mate who's respectful and gentle with your bottom, and will help you relax and gain confidence taking him and enjoy it. Use good slick lube and some finger play to help loosen you up for penetration. So chill out, take your time with it, and have fun while you play to relax your mind and your butt. Once penetration happens and he's massaging your prostate with his moves, your hole will dialate further, the pain will subside and you'll start feeling good. Go slow and gentle until your butt gets accustomed having him in you. You might try different positions too to facilitate easier penetration. As you gain experience and control, it will be easier to take him and enjoy it more. And don't forget to play safe and use a hood. Getting an STD is not a happy ending.

Answer 2

Well...If you must know....It's all about mood and foreplay. Seriously, It helps to drink a little alcohol that will make you relax, and they have this stuff they sell at some adult bookstores/toy stores called "poppers" or "rush" and various names also known as Liquid incense. That works wonders. You just sniff it and you get a rush and warm feeling and you wont even feel the pain. You have to keep sniffing it every couple of minutes cause it only lasts that long. Oh, and if you take a BIG sniff right before you ejaculate you will have an amazing orgasm.

Answer 3

It hurts so much because the muscles around there are not used to being assaulted in that fashion.However, here are some tips to help you take the pain out of what could otherwise be a pleasurable experience:

Before you have anal sex, be prepared,go to the bathroom,sit over the side of the bath or if your toilet pan is near the bath,sit on the pan,if you have a hose shower,run warm water and hold it over you **** with your right hand,and with your left,using your index finger,tease the entrance to your anus and gradually insert your finger,if it doesn't go in don't force it,relax,and keep trying until you manage to get your finger in.Push gently until you feel uncomfortable,then start an in out motion,try to get water in there to clean you out, then try using 2 fingers,then 3.this helps to expand the hole alittle,so the friction will not be too much when you're being penetrated.

Secondly,never have penetrated sex without a lubricant,Vaseline is very good inthat it oils you very well down there and also helps to soothe the linings of your ****-hole.And if you are using condoms,there is good old KY.

Thirdly,good,long and hard foreplay,this helps to relax you especially if this includes a massage and juggling together of your **** cheeks.

In addition,take the top position.Instead of doing the missionary position,let him lay on his back while you maintain the top position,You will be in control,so you can ease it in yourself bit by bit until the whole length is engulfed,give yourself time to adjust to the size before you start your up and down movements.

The other thing is that you should makesure your partners member is well lubricated too.

Also,where poppers is concerned, i would much rather not use those because after a while you get dependent on them,I'd much rather have my wits around me than having it drowned in some synthetic substance,but then the choice is yours,you may try and like the experience and it may work for you,so its up to you.

Hope you will find all this very helpfull.Goodluck!

Answer 4

It hurts because you are going in a NO ENTRY . The pain is nature's way of reminding you that you are breaking the natural rules and regulations ....so be careful as there are several problems awaiting ahead .

Answer 5

because the skin around the anus hole is made to push out, because the feces comes out there. it hurts because the skin is pushing inwards, because of the penis is penetrating inwards, so anal sex is gonna hurt like a mother. i always wanted to know what it feels like,u know be on the bottom.

Answer 6

Because the anus is intended to GIVE, not to receive.
You're trying to go in through the out door.

Answer 7

Because those muscles aren't used to you using them in that manner. Once they get used to it, it won't hurt as much.

Answer 8

Because the butt is not intended to have anything stuck up it.

Answer 9

cuz it's and exit.
Kinda like trying to open your bedroom door towards the hallway.

Answer 10

because things aren't supposed to go IN your butt... just out. The muscles are tighter too.