I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for, off and on, about 3 years. But he didn't get me anything for Valentine's Day. Does anyone have an idea why? Or any idea what I should do??
2007-02-14 11:23:29 · 23 answers · asked by SubCulture♫ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
Believe me if i have learned anything from couples therapy its that men and women use different parts of their brain What we view as important is different than what they see as important. Its probably not that your boyfriend does not care, its just that he sees things from a different point. Is he good to you otherwise? Believe me sometimes you just have to spell it out for them . Try to look at all the good things he does . Sometimes they outweigh
the things he forgets! Always let him know what you want and try to forgive him. Making up is the best part!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S. Welcome to Yahoo Answers. Happy V-Day!!
2007-02-14 11:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bird lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say because you deserve better and he is just not perfect for you. He may be a nice fit, and many people can be happy with a "nice fit" but you cant be stupid, dumb in love, slapstick, blissfully happy with just a nice fit. You can find a more appreciative person who is so good for you, that they just "know" that being recognized on Valentines Day is important without you needing to hint or say a word. Just remember that things like this are a good indication of what will happen in the future. Having a valentines day is such a minor, easy to do thing, that still means alot, and if he cant pull it together, then you need dismiss him and wait for the man you "just knows" to come along.
2007-02-14 11:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by AZrunner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get him anything for Valentine's Day?
2007-02-14 11:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I got homework for Valentine's Day so I wouldn't be complaining!
It would have been nice to get nothing at all!
2007-02-14 11:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Oklahoman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow me too.I have been wit my man for 3 yrs and nothing but an "i love you" and some you know what lol.But i would have liked flowers and candy too.But he says he is broke so i didnt get him nuttin either its gotta be 50/50 man.
2007-02-14 11:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find out let me know because I didnt get anything either.. I even had to shovel 2.5 feet of snow and clean the house by myself while he slept in...UNTIL 3:30PM!!!
2007-02-14 11:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by nease174 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you more on, or more off? If you're more off, that's why. If you're more on, maybe he didn't realize it meant so much to you. Or maybe you think you're "on" and he feels more "off" and he's trying to tell you something. If he is incapable of committment to you and only you, maybe you should find a permanent "on" guy. Just my 2 cents...
2007-02-14 11:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by Just another opinion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect thing from your boyfriend every V-Day. If he works and has an apartment, your just pushin' your luck.
2007-02-14 11:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Krazi3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off and On and you're stll around? Dump him, he thinks more of himself than he does you. Even if he doesn't believe in these money mongering holidays a card and a rose would do.
2007-02-14 11:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Cher 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he just doesn't care all that much about you (unless you find out that he had a family emergency or something serious like that). Sorry.
2007-02-14 11:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Steady As She Goes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋