my mom's bf has bn touching my sister .like he has grabbed her crouch and pulled her shirt down and he grabbed her butt. reciently he grabbed my butt and we told our mom and she keeps making excuses 4 him. i dont kno wat 2 do so any ideas?
2007-02-14 11:21:46 · 11 answers · asked by blah blah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm 15 and he's 44 or 45. my sister was19 or 20
2007-02-14 11:28:49 · update #1
You don't have to put up with this, it is sexual abuse and it is against the law. You need to talk with your school counselor, your mom is probaby gonna be mad when all this comes up but you need it to stop now, it will only get worse and then he will be trying to have sex with you and your sister. Don't worry if you didn't act mad when he did it even though you didn't like it, he has no right. Sorry your mom won't stand up for you.These type things start out small and just keep on,, they don't get better.
2007-02-14 11:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but next time he touches you tell him he better not do that again.
Tell someone other than your Mum, your Dad would be good if he is around.
Your Mum's bf has no right to be touching you in anyway especially not the way you have described.
You need someone older to intervene and make him aware that they know what he is doing and that it has to stop!!!
2007-02-14 11:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to your mom about it. If she does not believe you, go to 2.
2. Talk to a trusted adult friend or teacher, etc. Then go to 3:
3. Call the police and report these occurrences instantly.
2007-02-14 11:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by peersignal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mother will not listen tell another trusted adult and do it quickly. Aunt, Uncle, Grandparents, teacher, clergy and/or local Social Service worker.
You and your sister are young and it must be scarey but tell another trusted adult. Tell your mom how it makes you feel and how her making excuses for him makes you feel but in case I haven't said it enough - tell another adult.
2007-02-14 11:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by MI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is wrong with you and your sister? you're not 5 and 8, she is grown and she can't handle this? tell him to f-- off and go to the police, your kind of mother will be of no help, she knows exactly what is going on.
2007-02-14 12:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has no respect for you girls if she doesn't care that her boyfriend touches you. If either of you are minors, press charges, if you're both adults, get it on camera sometime, if that doesn't work, stop going around until she gets rid of him.
2007-02-14 11:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him to the police, and if you don't do that. When you and your sister have daughters, keep them away from him.
2007-02-14 12:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by ngawhetu72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a phone or camera record it. Then you have proof. Show it to mom, or if she's not listening show it to the police
2013-09-28 06:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and ask for help next time. they have a counselor specially for that problem. 911 is what you call.
2007-02-14 11:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report him NOW! Don't wait for your mom. Sometimes the moms are so in love they'll ignore this type of abuse. Report it to someone please, before something worse happens to you. Do you have anyone who can help you, at church, school etc. Please do not ignore this! I will be praying for you.
2007-02-14 11:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by ladybugjan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋