Ok, I let my sister keep my 6 month old for a few days while I was going to be out of town. She has two bottom teeth and HAD one coming in at the top. well she, my baby, fell when she tried to pull up....and I understand that, babies are going to fall and get hurt, It's just gonna happen.....but when I find out that che cried for 4 hours and my dunbass sister didn't do anything about it!!!!!! I HATE her SO much right now!!!! but I can home RIGHT aftre I found out what really happend, and took the baby to the emergency room and they tell me that my bay has a SIGHT cuncussion almost 18 hours after the fact!!! Now I need to know what to do about my IDIOT sister and what i need to so with my baby. Her top tooth got knocked back in somehow, her lips a brused and she has a big bumb on her head. She's still laughing and playing like always, but i'm still worrried......please help me out, or at least try to console me a little................
2007-02-14 11:15:14 · 6 answers · asked by ariel 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
Children are notorious for healing quickly. Her tooth, as long as it was not detatched but the fall, will continue to grow, and her concussion will heal over time. As much as it is frightening to know that your child has something as scary sounding as a concussion, as long as she is playing, laughing, and still enjoying life, she hasn't been overly affected by it. If it was worse, like a cut on her scalp, or a severe concussion, I would be far more worried...I myself have had a few "minor" concussions, and none of them have affected my daily life in the slightest.
As for your sister, you left your child with your sister with the understanding that she would care for her and make sure that nothing like this would happen, and if it did, that she would act accordingly. You need to tell her how upset you are that she would ignore a crying child for that long. Yes, a child does cry, and yes, it can sometimes be for no reason, but if you, as an adult, know that the child fell down and bumped her head, use your logic. Chances are that she is crying because she is hurt. Because after the first two minutes, a child that age wouldn't remember what she was scared about! Your sister needs to realize that this could have been far worse than it is.
But for yourself, you also need to realize that as much as you are upset and angry with your sister for being irresponsible, she was probably working under the assuption that your daughter was just crying for attention, and know that if it was worse, your sister would have acted properly.
Just be thankful it isn't worse than a slight concussion!!!
I hope you and your daughter feel better soon.
2007-02-14 11:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by xylina_69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your upset. First if the doctors said your baby is fine then relax about that and take a deep breath. Your babies teeth will most likely work it's self around and come back out in time. If your concerned go to a pediatric dentist and tell the dentist what happened and let them tell you what they think. Something similar happened in my family, and all that happened to the teeth is delayed them coming in for awhile. Now to address your anger with your sister. Does she have any kids herself, if she doesn't maybe she didn't realize what she should have done and how she should have reacted. It's understandable that you are angry with her, what did she say in her defense? Give yourself some time to calm down and ask her these questions. If you are ever to trust her with your child again you need to know the answers to these and any other questions you have. If you really think she did this on purpose, your common sense should tell you what to do, if you think it was an accident and she feels bad about what happened then you need to forgive her; like you said accidents do happen no matter where your child might be. I will say one thing no six month old should be left alone at any time and their environment should be protected/padded so they don't get hurt when they tumble.. Please take some time to relax and calm down then talk to your sister most chances are it was an accident and she feels terrible, if you find different then you will know never to leave your child with her again.
Good luck,
2007-02-14 11:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by crazymom617 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many parents go through what you are going through. You did the right thing by going to the emergency room. And you definitely have the right to be upset with your sister. I think you should keep a close eye on your child to make sure that she does not start acting strangely. Some side effects can come up hours or days after the actual event, though they are not that common. Then as to dealing with your sister, I hope you will find some compassion eventually for her if this is an isolated incident. And you should express to any family or friends who care for your child that you want them to call you if something like this occurs. Accidents do happen and you want to be with your child through the bumps and scrapes.
2007-02-14 11:20:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset and worried, but I'm here to tell you it doesn't sound very necessary. Kids are tougher than we give them credit for, and besides not every concussion is ER material. As for her tooth, they're going to fall out and grow back in anyway. Your sister is what concerns me. It sounds like way too many hours passed without her contributing an ounce of attention to your daughter. She should've at least tried to calm her down or something, anything but ignore her. I would find a better babysitter if I were you. Try not to worry about your kid too much though. Seriously, you can drive yourself insane that way.
2007-02-14 11:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schedule a follow-up visit with the baby's doctor. You will probably find she's just fine and you'll feel better. Then, when you've calmed some, have a talk with your sister. Remind her of what YOU consider proper child care responsibilities. But consider your own judgement. How old is your sister? How much experience does she have? How specific were your instructions before you left? Then give your baby and your sister both a hug.
2016-05-23 23:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let my daughter stay with my ex sister n law while i went to my 6 week check up, it was really cold and bad weather.. i went to get her and notice that she was crying so i went to change her and found a blister on her stomach, she never watched her again no one did in fact except my mother. keep an eye on her and take her to the doctor if you see any changes in her behavior.
2007-02-14 11:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by thunderspirit1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋