what can we do?
2007-02-14 11:09:49 · 6 answers · asked by poorgirl1971 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Does he know you feel this way? If so then you are most of the way there. If not then maybe you could talk about it with him? If you don't feel you can then it's ok, it's a difficult subject to broach.
I would suggest foreplay, and lot's of it! When he's doing something you like and seems like he wants to get moving to the next stage tell him no, tell him mmm that's nice darling, just do it a bit longer, it feels so good, you'll make me *** if you keep doing that... Or something along those lines, sorry if it's a bit graphic!
Going to be really frank, do you masturbate when you are having sex? If not then maybe you can find a way of introducing it in to the relationship? It may seem like a hard thing to do, but I think it's a bit of a turn on for most men to see a woman do it!
The fact is that most women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation, those that can are lucky!
If you can't do it yourself then try to maximise positions, try being on top and leaning forward, hooking your feet under his thighs to heighten his pelvis somewhat, bringing it closer to the right area for you. You might find that the slightest twist of your body will get you in the right place!
If I can think of anything else I'll be back... :)
Edit: Hmm, he doesn't necessarily have to wait for you before he climaxes, but if he is made aware of how you feel then he should make the effort to ensure you enjoy it too, whether it's before or after he does.
You will probably find that if you are satisfied even half the time then the rest of the time it won't bother you.
2007-02-14 11:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by cymraesgwyllt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We went through this too when we were first intimate. Look, he shouldn't climax until you do. Plain and simple. He should try to focus on your needs for a specific amount of time that you pick together. It may take awhile before you figure out what is good for you.
2007-02-14 11:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it! communication is key. Tell him what you like or what would make you feel good. You don't have to put him down to let him know you're not satisfied. Just be sure he knows what satisfies you and explain how much more amazing it is when you are satisfied, for both of you!
2007-02-14 11:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Marlietta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make him go jogging. it builds stamina, endurance, and strength. if he acts satisfied its because he is, it doesn't take much for a guy. also you should deny him sex until he wants you to have a jolly good time too.
2007-02-14 11:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by ianvredmond 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Use a **** ring or if he can't last that long or ask him if he is interested in Viagra or hey masturbate if he can't fulfill your needs.
2007-02-14 11:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
does he know you aren't climaxing?
you should clarify that you need more stimulation than he does, so.. have him start on you first, if you know what i mean.
hope you get yours!
2007-02-14 11:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋