my best guy friend has been acting really touchy feely today (v-tines day) today we were alone together after skool and when he was about 2 leave, he came over to give me a hug(nothing unusual)(oh yeah he has a girlfriend) then he start whispering. i love you so much and he started kissing me all on my face. i was like WHOA. (but the truth is i really like him, its just that he's taken and im not into taken men) he just held on to me for a minute and i was like wusup wit u? remember ur g/f? he was jus like i love you and he kissed me on the cheek and left. i dont kno wut to say 2 him or his girlfriend tomorrow at skool . help!!!!
2007-02-14 11:07:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i was in an uncomfortable situation with my best guy friend once and i regret it because since that incident our friendship has never been the same. i feel as if i lost the possible love of my life and a very good friend. if i had to choose which i would rather have; i would want his friendship back. for your situation i think you should drop it for now. if it happens again you need to have a serious talk with him. you dont want to risk something so precious. as for how to act around the girlfiend, leave it alone unless it happened again and she wanted to know what was going on. otherwise dont offer any extra information. i dont know what your guy friends trip was today but maybe you did something for him that you dont even know about yet and he was loving you in a friendly type way. who knows. lets just hope it doesnt happen again even though you know you really liked it !
2007-02-14 11:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, dont freak out. Maybe he really does love you. Most "best guy friends" fall in love with their best "girl friend" Maybe he is with this other girl for a cover up, or he never thought that you would love him. Maybe he didnt want to mess up the friendship and thats why he didnt say anything until now. As for talking to him, just ask him how he really feels about you, and why he didnt tell you before. As for his girlfriend, you dont have to say anything, you didnt do anything wrong. If she wants to be mad at someone it should be him and not you. Everything will work out the way its supposed to. and if you like him, tell him, whether he has a girlfriend or not. you should always express how you feel no matter the situation. Because you can never change your own feelings, and you shouldnt have to. Maybe this will work out for the better. I hope i have helped. Jes
2007-02-14 11:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you and he need to sit down and talk. Being friends, you could probably just honestly ask him what was going on? It could be he just was doing this as a friend, or, with all those kisses on your face, maybe more. After you have this talk with him, then you will have more of an idea as to how to talk to his gf about this, if there is a need to. Take care.
2007-02-14 11:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm maybe u should try talkin to him (2moz ie after v day) hopefully he werent drunk or anything. His gf prob shldn't no. Are they like really in love or is it not so serious? But anyway tlk 2 him bout it, see whats up with him. And pick a time where there are like no distractions. Hope that helps !
2007-02-14 11:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell him look if u really like me , end with ur girlfriend but don't hurt her feelings ,wait 4 a week or 2 until everything is calm down and then start going out together
2007-02-14 11:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by hi ! (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 10:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats too you for not acting back on his actions, since he already has a g/f, need more chicks like you around!!!!! I would just act like nothing happened around his g/f, but you need to ask him what is up and why he would do that. Maybe he just felt like letting you know how much he really DOES care about you, and maybe he's not into his g/f any more. Who knows. Let me know how it turns out!!!!!
2007-02-14 11:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may seem temting to succumb to his advances, but remeber that he has a girl friend and just imagine how you would feel if your boy friend did the same to another girl. Tell him politely but firmly that, you would like him to stop because he's your best friend and its not fair on his GF. Just be honest and do the right thing.
2007-02-14 11:12:52 · answer #8 · answered by littleminnie1000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him tomorrow, alone. Tell him that your not interested if he has a girlfriend. If he doesn't pull any more of this stuff, let it go, and forget about it, but if he continues to do this, tell his girlfriend! It sucks, but if you go along with it, its not just his integrity that is in question, but yours as well since you know he has a girlfriend.
2007-02-14 11:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by CollegeStud09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he cant do that kind of stuff with a girlfriend.
I, too, think that he should leave his girlfriend
especially if he REALLY loves you.
I mean, of course it would suck for the girlfriend,
but it wouldnt be bad for the both of you, right?
I think you should definitely go for it.
the fact that you guys are best friends is a great sign.
2007-02-14 11:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋