how can she do this to me?what a *****?

Question

theres this chick. I also thought she was my "bestfriend." Little did I know how much of a ***** she is. I always knew that she was fake but w/e, but I never knew the amount of **** she said behind my back. I knew she was jealous (not too be vain), she said rude things to me. "You're face is big," and she makes "jokes" about my blemishes and much more. she said i was ugly (but thats cause she is jealous), said I was mean(u don't know the amount of nice deeds i did for her), stubborn, annoying etc., she couldn' t pour out one positive thing about me. she said so much ****, i knew she was fake and jealous but I didn't know she would say it to my bestfriend or what she really thought of me. How could she? it did hurt me a little bit but i could never trust her again. so many people are sooo fake to me and trushtworthy, on top of that she admitted that she does talk **** behind my back. and oh yeah! she told my friend not to tell me this! but my bestie did.

how shud i confront her?

Answer 1

ew leave her!

Answer 2

no wonder why she talk about you like that, you are just doing the same in yahoo answers instead of telling her this same words in her face. You have just a big mouth, you say you get hurt a Little but to me she touch you deep.
I don want to sound rude to you but you must know that insulting a person is not the smartest way to confront a bad situation. Live by example , be nice and tech her a lesson about friendship, do not finish your relationship just be yourself and courteous with her but also very direct in what you don't like, I bet she will feel bad for her actions. If you just want to fight back you will get more of what you don't want back to with a little more to add thanks to you act.
Make sense? I hope it helps you . good luck.

Answer 3

Try not to let it upset u to much I get that all the time ,wen people talk about you their either jealous or insecure themselves.so chalk it up as a learning experience trust me the older you get the more you will know there are alot of fake backbiters out there.

Answer 4

i used to have a friend like that.. she awlays put me down and always yelled about the fact so many people came to me for advice.. but really thats hows low self esteem... the best thing you can do is ignore what she says about you and compliment her.. i know it sounds hard to do.. but if you show her what she says doesnt hurt, or tear you down she shell stop.. its what i did, and this girl eventually stopped... she even told my boyfriend she has a lot respect for me to be able to put aside the drama of high school and not let what people say get the best of me.. so just know its not true and try to help bring her self esteem up.. once its up she'll stop bad mouthing and attacking you

Answer 5

I agree with the other answer. Remain true to your real friends. use this experience in the future on what NOT to do with your friends. you're right she's just jealous of something you have.

Answer 6

i know how you feel and i understand ive been there also a friend of mine. well i confronted her i talk to her i told her everything i knew. you cant blame yourself if its a little harsh but thats what you feel. go for it give her a lecture

Answer 7

80 % o fthe people you'll ever meet will be fake so just brush it off, kick her to the curb and dont let her ignorance upset you.

just hold on to your real friends and youll be fine.!!

Answer 8

Maybe you should just ignore her. Pretend she is not even there trust me she will get soooo annoyed pretty soon then leave you alone.

Answer 9

go up to her, and act calm. not angry. i just went over things like this i na class in school. act cool, don't flip out.