They have been fighting alot, and it's like they don't want to talk to each other every so often. They never fought this much, and it's nothing serious like abuse or anything. It's just that they fight alot more than I can ever remember them doing. I'm going crazy trying to figure it out.
2007-02-14 11:05:50 · 13 answers · asked by Pweekiwi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know money isn't a problem. And it's definitely not because of my brother and me because we always (okay most of the time) get along. But they both seem short-tempered alot, and my dad and mom are always disagreeing now. I do understand that people fight, but this is VERY unusual for them.
2007-02-14 11:25:33 · update #1
How old are you? If you are in your teens, you should know now that people do argue. they dont get a long sometimes.
Even with your bestest friends your argue, parents are more than just best friends. So there are a lot of things they have to solve, and it sometimes have to be dealt with a lot of ways to find and answer they needed.
They migh fight, yell, scream, even be seperated to figure out what to do next.
I guess its hard being a kid, I understand that it must be hard on you to understand.
My guess dont jump into conclusions untill the last moment, im pretty sure if they are going to get a divorce they will tell you (I hope).
And dont try to sort things out for them either, they are adults and they still working out and testing ways to get out from this trouble.
Get on with your own life, get busy. but if really start to bother you, you should "on a good day" talk to either ones that are closes to you and express how you feel about these fights they have.
Even if they did get a divorce, believe me it isnt the end of the world. There are other things worse than that like death of parents...so yeah
stay strong!!
2007-02-14 11:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful_Oddities 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only thing you can do now is try to make sure that you don't pick sides. Sometimes the best thing for a marriage is divorce. Parents will still be parents, but they soon realize that they will only be the best of parents apart. Let them figure it out from here. It doesn't mean that they will love you any less, but for the both of them don't you think they would be happier and better if they are getting along, and the only way for them to do that may be apart. Hang in there, it will get better.
2016-05-23 23:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes couples go through these phases where there is a problem in the relationship and a lot times it takes a long time to confront or it may never be confronted.
Divorces often stem from long periods (unless there is infidelity involved) of problems to the point where there is no longer love for each other or realizing that even if they love each other it just can't work.
If this problems continues for awhile, you should talk to your parents about it. Parents should be honest to their kids regarding a life-altering situation like divorce.
2007-02-14 11:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by lyzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Arguments happen a lot more frequently than divorces. Still, it sounds like some problems are escalating. The best thing you can do is keep from being a problem yourself. Be kind to both of them. If there's news to be shared, they'll share it at an appropriate time.
2007-02-14 11:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard, if not impossible, for anyone not in that relationship to know what either is thinking. The main thing for you to realize is that your parents are people and subject to the same frailties as every other person. And they are also adults and therefore can make their own decisions. Those decisions are not your responsibilty nor are their disagreements you or your brother's fault, so try not to worry about them, just love them both and accept that whatever happens they are still your parents and still love you.
2007-02-14 12:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown Oscillator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't neccesarily mean that they are going to get divorced, it might just mean that there is a particular problem in their relationship right now. Either way, you shouldnt have to put up with it so you should tell them to stop fighting in front of you.
2007-02-14 11:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. The best way to know is to sit down with one or both of them and ASK them. Maybe they will think that if you are concerned about them splitting up, then maybe they should stop fighting so much.
2007-02-14 11:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by kaisergirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All couples go through rough spots in their marriage. Many times an outside marriage counselor can help them work through issues that they are too close to see clearly. Tell your parents that you are concerned about them and suggest they go to counseling.
Lastly, this is NOT your fault and it is something they will have to work through. Good Luck.
2007-02-14 11:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bruce H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal if they get a divorce it not that bad ive been throw when i was 11 , it just that you have to know that your parents love you and beside there problems they will agree on that!
2007-02-14 11:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by keyona j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not , I hope not. I hope they work out what ever the problem is. You should ask them ( but nicely)
2007-02-14 11:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋