Would it be wrong to ask my counceler to watch me masturbate?

Question

I am an 18 year old male and my counceler is a 33 year old female. I talk about everything with her and she tells me that i can ask her anything and talk to her about anything i want. I don`t know why i want this but i wand her to watch me while a masturbate, not to touch me or have sex, just to look at me while i do it and until i ejaculate. She dosen`t have to do a thing exept to look at me. Is it wrong to ask her this, why, if not how can i ask her,

Answer 1

I think she would feel really embarrassed as I feel now.It's so degrading. You need HELP NOW.

Answer 2

The short, tragic answer to your question is that, yes, indeed, it would be completely inappropriate for you to ask your counselor to watch you masturbate. I can tell you this authoritatively, with certainty. Counselors are bound by their oath and ethics not to take advantage of the frequent sexual attraction that patients feel for them, which is a real pisser, if you ask me. There is absolutely nothing wrong, however, with fantasizing about such a scenario while you masturbate in some more appropriate venue. That's how I spent the bulk of my leisure time during the entire decade of my '20s, in fact.

When I was in my early 20s and depressed and lost, I started counselling with a woman who was not only an unbelievable psychotherapist, she was also a recently-divorced, heartbroken unbelievable piece of ***. I was a student at the time, and she was kind enough to allow me to study in her office after a session during an hour I had between classes when she was on rounds at the local nuthouse. I almost wound up there myself when I got the screwy idea of predending to lose track of time and jerking off violently on her fine leather couch when she returned exactly fifty minutes later to prepare for her next appointment. She knew every aspect of my exhibitionist streak, and we had worked out a few perameters so that I could indulge it without running afoul of the law or destroying my reputation. She always seemed so hip and supportive of what was then a rather progressive idea that it was better to masturbate with your entire dorm floor than to have unprotected sex with one person. She never flinched when I told her my mildly perverse stories about such adventures. I figured, "We're off the clock; she hasn't seen a dick for awhile, mine's great, and I'm a renowned showman...it'll be good for both of us!"

Nope. "That's totally inappropriate and must stop immediately," she said sternly, throwing a box of kleenex at me. Talk about a ***** killer. The next time I had an appointment, she made it plain that there'd be no way in hell she'd ever indulge my fantasy, "even if I wanted to." She put the matter to bed when I started to ask, "Do you . . . ?"

"NO!"

Damn.

there you have it. learn from my blunder. Indulge your twisted little fantasy--it's a good one, by God--but do it in private, or else enlist the aid of a willing, consenting adult who doesn't happen to be treating your emotional illness. There are more of them out there than you might think.

I know what you mean, dude. I know what the hell you mean.

And an amusing little addendum to the story is that, having built up this woman as a secret little freak underneath all that wool and tweed, I discovered she probably is nothing of the sort. Pondering a career direction with her, I asked her if she always knew she was going to be a shrink. Hoping to hear, "Well, I thought about going into porn for awhile," what I heard instead was, "My whole life until I turned 19 I was committed to becoming a nun, actually." Oooooo. Mortal sin and all that ****. Ouch.

Answer 3

yes it would. it just seems gross. if you want to talk about things like this without being judged come and visit my yahoo group.

if you need further support and advice, i encourage you to join a support group i have created through yahoo groups. it is a free group where teens can go and feel comfortable about talking about these kinds of things and receive helpful advice. the website is www.groups.yahoo.com/groups/
help4teens come and join. there is not much there right now but the more people we get the more help we can give. hope to see you there. good luck.

Answer 4

Yes, that would be wrong!! EEEWWW! She is your counselor not your sex partner. If you have a fantasy about her, do it at home. She is too professional(or should be) and would get put in jail for that, And she would be grossed out Im sure!! I am aware of the possibility that this question is probably not true, but a shameful way of mis-using the internet to get people to communicate with you in a sexual manner. If you write another question like this someone could report you for abuse. IF it is a REAL question, the answer is ......Yes!! It is very wrong!! Dont ask her!!

Answer 5

That is wrong. You can keep her in your fantasies and do whatever you want. But in real life, dont even think of asking her. Lots of things are nice only in fantasies not in real life. enjoy your fantasies and leave them there.

Answer 6

What do you say if I ask you to watch me masturbate?

Answer 7

Yes-this is completely wrong and disrespectful, it could also be considered a form of harrasment.

Answer 8

Sure; it's perfectly fine. Any normal guy would want the same thing. Go ahead & ask her.

Answer 9

she really can't unless she wants to risk her career........you can ask but if she values her job she will refuse and you might undo all the work you have done to get this comfortable with her.

Answer 10

Off to the looney bin, if you ask her.