I'm an openly gay man. A few month ago my roommate ( straight so he says) and best friend of about 5 years kissed me ..We were on a business trip together and due to a booking error were only able to get a room with a king sized bed. Well late that night i was awaken by a hand stroking my temple. He was wide awake. e made eye contact. Before i could fully comprehend what was going he leaned in and kissed me.
Fast forward several months I find my self still asking what was up with that and what should I do ? We never talked about it .. Should we? I have developed a crush . What should i do?
2007-02-14 10:48:01 · 23 answers · asked by Corey J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
So today i kinda brought it up to him, and the air got thick and he said nothing... We where running to the story and he said, " hey, that's the guy that tried to push up on me." I just couldn't resist bringing it up so i played dumb and asked what do you mean push up on you ( BTW the uy was old enough to be his dad) He explained he approached me in the library and asked me for my number .. I laughed and said "you know how to pull them." then I asked so you never would do anything with a guy? "and he said you got it.. the I went for the kill and said but you kissed me unproved..He got quite.. So i changed the subject .. I have no clue what is up with this guy . What should i do ? What am i dealing with ? There is more.....
2007-02-16 11:30:38 · update #1
WELL YOU ALL READY ASK HIM ABOUT IT BACK OFF .DON,T ASK HIM NO MORE OR YOU WELL NEVER FIND OUT WHY HE KISSED YOU.HE WELL TALK TO YOU A BOUT IT WHEN OR IF WHEN HE IS READY TO . THAT NIGHT HE MIGHT HAVE JUST WONDER WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE . SO JUST LEAVE IT BE
2007-02-19 11:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's straight?
Let's assume so.
That was probably a one time thing where his inhibitions were down.
It's still possible to get it on if handled very very delicately, but if he's straight - he's always going to find a womans body more attractive. Even an ugly woman!
That's how us straight guys roll.
Regardless of how cool or cosmically connected you may be on the best day - there is no long term future in mixing straight/gay...
There is potentially a nice evening - but that will catastrophically disrupt the relationship.
This all very obvious.
I suspect you know this all ready.
2007-02-14 10:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Nicholas J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find that people do what they like when they kiss. If they kiss you long and slow... If they start tongue wrestling... That's how they want to be kissed. So if I do something like they do, with a little twist of my own, they really like it. Then I'll vary it a little by throwing something else in. If they start doing when they are kissing me, I know they liked it and ramp it up. It's also a great way to become a better kisser because you get to try on different kissing styles to add to your own.
2016-03-29 06:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an oddity to him. He's been wondering about you. He wanted to venture and see what was that oddity but feel safe. Now back off, the 'oddity' thing didn't 'take.' Believe me, if he was interested, being your roommate, he'd have jumped you, not kissed you.
You've got a crush because 'pickins are slim' out there and after all, he is your roommate. Forget about it.
2007-02-17 14:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cory,
Straight men even questions themselves about homosexuality. The sex drive is not always base on the male/female desire, but a matter of intercourse with anyone to where he can place himself inside or receive oral sex. He was mostly perhaps asking himself if he could really make love to you.
The best method is to satisfy your curiosity. You can use words game on him to let him how you feel.
You: "Remember when you kiss me months ago. I wish you haven't done that!"
Him: "Why?"
You: "Now I have a crush on you! Tell me what should I do?"
and see what happens. Good luck
God Bless.
2007-02-14 11:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OHH NO!!! lord no! you missed out on probably one the greatest memories you couldve ever had! ugh! do you still talk to him? he's still your roommate? yeah? well, then- good! cause you can make it happen!
UGH! i wish i was in your situation.
have him catch you masturbating -FOR REAL! DO IT! see where it goes from there. ... or... fake being drunk! pass out on couch.... yeeeeeeeeeeah! make sure he's there... see if he goes for it! or, if you dont drink, just... "sleep" on the couch one day. heheeheheh.ohh. darn.
YOU SHOULD go for it somehow. lucky you! aaww..but it could destroy the friendship. maybe you should just hold back. dont bring it up... well, no. youve a crush on him, he may have one on you, so maybe you should just talk to him... or have him molest you in your sleep. ... which is great. cause ya wont 'really' be sleeping. wink-wink.
2007-02-14 10:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Everybody's different and we don't know the situation.
That part about being in the same bed and him touching you is kind of strange.
You really don't have any other choice than to ask him about it.
2007-02-14 10:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fast forward several months? And never talked about it? What are you, a zombie?
2007-02-14 10:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolulty talk to him about it! He made the first move!!! He probably was afraid to talk about it because he is not ready to admit he is gay!
2007-02-14 11:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Zack one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not straight if he kissed you like that! Kiss him back! Or at least ask if you can!
2007-02-14 11:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋