2007-02-14 10:46:47 · 14 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When people hate you or despise you, do not reciprocate their hatred with hatred back. But retaliate it with easy going attitude & cheerfulness. Why you really should be depressed for someone else's hatred on you? People with hatred inside their soul truly enjoy if someone reciprocates their hatred back. It's sort of like a pleasure for them.... if you despise them back, means you give them a joy, satisfaction and indulgence in their heart. For every action there is a reaction. You can't be a victim.....
2007-02-14 10:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ALL of these people hate you, then there is most likely something that YOU are doing to trigger this type of response. You should really reflect and be HONEST with yourself in order to discover what the problem is. If you're truly concerned with the negative feedback you've been getting, then you will find a way to modify your behavior and/or demeanor accordingly. On the other hand, you might just want to "be yourself" no matter what and not concern yourself with what others think. In either case, good luck to you!
P.S. You might also want to consider the possibility that you might be just a little self-absorbed.
2007-02-14 11:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you they hate. There maybe something about you that could remind them of someone else. eg. your laugh may remind them of an ex boyfriend/girlfriend or you may look similar to someone who bullied them at school..... etc... It's not personal and sometimes it could be a subconscious thing so don't worry. You just have to prove your individuality
2007-02-14 10:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mayleigh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore as*holes and don't pay them any mind. Their opinion doesn't count anyway. Be courteous to them when the occasion presents itself, but don't commit to them by giving them more opportunity. Respect yourself and everything will fall into place. Stay positive.
2007-02-14 10:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to change your appearance.
i don't mean to be rude, but before i get to know someone with a bad appearance i don't like them. i don't HaTe them though. hate's a really strong word so i use it carefully.
hope this helped and good luck!
2007-02-14 11:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with AC - just do not fall into their trap. Just be yourself, pleasant and that drives them crazy. Sometimes it is based on jealousy - they think you are coming in to take their place, their friends. They are insecured - so hatred is their best defense.
2007-02-14 10:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Feline05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have that alot at our school, the way the generation is now that seems like alot of people do that
2007-02-14 10:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Stylist :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard question, but alot of people are just closed minded don't take it to heart
2007-02-14 10:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all get rid of the toilet picture, then try not to be strange or anything, if your shy then people will think your stuck-up, don't be shy
2007-02-14 11:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Keeganrb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bc they 'feel' with their stupidity, they 'feel/see' something stupid in themselves and you should feel glad knowing they hate themselves even more and that's NOT your problem. :x
2007-02-17 21:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋