If you hadn't seen each other for a LOOOOOONG time, and he had not touched another woman, would you be bothered by his use of porn? Or would you just be thankful that he was not with another woman?
2007-02-14 10:44:15 · 32 answers · asked by J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the wife loves to watch it during sex,, like tonight,, whooo hooo
2007-02-14 10:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
If you haven't seen each other for such a loooooooong time, how does she even know that you were using porn? Where you thinking with the brain between your legs when you told her? Or are you taking a poll before you decide, which is even worse? Some things are better left unsaid. It's like the little white social lie. It's upsetting to a woman to find this out. When you're away from each other and missing each other, she wants to know that you were thinking of her not a surgically enhanced bimbo and the guy with the ridiculously huge d*** that's doing her. BTW, what if she were finding your equipment lacking? How would you feel? --this is what it says to her, that she's lacking, not attractive enough, her breasts aren't large enough and her tummy isn't flat enough, etc.
Marriage is about commitment. It's a given that you're not ever for whatever reason "with" another woman. You don't get a special reward for that. Start thinking with the brain in your head and you'll have a much better relationship!
2007-02-14 11:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, question for you. Why do you need to look at other women's nude bodies to get off? Why can't you just think of your wife? OK, so my husband, with my permission, got a playboy subscription. I do not mind him looking at it. But that is as far as it goes. He doesn't "use" it. I guess that I would be thankful that another women wasn't involved, but disappointed at the same time. Know what I mean? It's a touchy subject. Porn has such a bad rap and not many women are into it or think it is proper. I guess it all depends on the woman. In the end, I think that I wouldn't mind, but the porn would have to go away once we are together.
2007-02-14 10:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not around then i would much rather him use porn then another woman. I used to be in the military and was gone for a long time. He used porn but then went to other women. Trust me, the other women stuff bothers you alot more. And alot longer. If you cant be there, let the porn do it, at least they are not really there!!
2007-02-14 13:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Takita F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An addiction to at least something isn't a sturdy ingredient. How does it make me experience if my husband has a lager once a month at the same time with his acquaintances? nicely, um, it makes me experience detached; i do not care if he does or does no longer have that beer. Is it so frustrating to have self assurance? i particularly, heavily do not care. It would not follow that i does no longer care if he began eating on a daily basis - i might want to easily care, and it does no longer be an perfect challenge. yet each and every once later on - that's high-quality with me. similar with porn; why ought to I care if my better 1/2 appears like searching at porn once in a blue moon? If he replaced into enthusiastic about it, it might want to modern a situation, even though it might want to be the obsession, no longer the challenge that could want to be complicated. i might want to be only as ticked off if he replaced into hooked on a mmo. that's some distance from indulding in something on occastion to an entire-blown dysfunctional addiction; there is no opt to lump both. maximum individuals who've wine with dinner at the on the spot are not alcoholics, and the overall public who check out porn at the on the spot are not addicts. Sorry that you've been, it must have sucked.
2016-11-03 11:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - why would that bother you? Since you claim you haven't seen each other in a LOOOOOONG time and that he hasn't touched another woman, maybe he needs the porn to turn himself on or to stimulate himself. As long as he doesn't cheat on you, then it's ok. Maybe he's watching it because he needs to enhance his sex life - which means he's doing it for you.
2007-02-14 10:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by carebare2120 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
For myself, initially I was bothered with him wanting to watch it (because he has me, right?) but what I come to realize is that men need variety. No matter how in love they are with you and how satisfied sexually they are, men want to see other women naked. And not to compare, just to see. Let him explore if he needs to. Holding him back will only create problems under the surface.
2007-02-14 11:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by mstrayg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn in my opinion is cheating. Why do you have to watch other people on tv to make you excited? It lowers a woman's worth and makes her feel like an object and not the sensual being she is. That tells me that you aren't thinking about her but your own self gratification.
2007-02-14 10:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Noree 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If we hadn't seen eachother in a LOOOOOONG time, then I would be ok with that. It is better than another woman. But on a regular basis when we see eachother everyday, I am not ok with that...
2007-02-14 10:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Absolutely not. Porn comes in all different forms. Women use porn, they are just more apt not to admit it. If it makes your man happy, then go for it. I would be offended if I wanted porn and my man was bothered by it.
2007-02-14 10:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Only In Dreams 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
yes i would.a married man or a man in a committed relationship has no right to look at other naked women.a lot of adultery starts out innocently enough but it is wrong to tempt yourself to cheat.would he be ok with you looking at naked pictures of men or porn or pretending he was BRAD PITT in bed? i dont think so .look over your marriage vows does keeping yourself only to thee mean anything?a lot of people break up because someone finds someone else online.
2007-02-14 10:53:02 · answer #11 · answered by dixie58 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋