I have a problem, and it's affecting me quite a bit. Have been seeing my girlfriend for about a year, and we've started recently having sex...or more...not! Everytime we try, it always seems to go wrong (we're both virgins). In the missionary position, I find it really hard, as lying on her, I can't see where I should be inserting, can't feel it either, and she doesn't really help. I end up feeling so depressed every time we try, and I just don't know what to do any more. I love her, but everytime we try, she just seems so disappointed, and I don't know if I can try any more!
2007-02-14 10:41:34 · 6 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
its always like that in the starting. Be patient and try again. alowly the perfection will come. I hope you have acquired enough knowledge before trying. Just understand really what you are trying before. I guess you both are tense, spent lots of time on foreplay then insertion becomes easier. first few times guide the insertion w ith the help of your hands and feel with hands and insert. slowly you will get used to it.
2007-02-14 11:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, i was like that when i first did it with my gf. When a girl is a virgin, its very hard to insert. Normally your penis wont go in or it'll just go in about 1/4 - 1/2 way. When you do insert, try lifting her legs so it's easier for you. Go in slowly while kissing her, hugging her and talking with her, dont drive it in hard or jam it in, you have to keep asking her if shes alright or if it hurts too much. Once the pain for her is gone, it should be easier to do it. Also use lubricant if you have any.
2007-02-15 02:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Vanq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, buddy. I feel pretty bad for you. Well, you know what they say, practice makes perfect. Let her know and maybe she can help. I understand your pain, just be patient and...umm...just aim in the right place and go for it. That's all I can tell you without being too explicit. Good luck, and I mean it.
P.S. If you or she is in the wrong position, that makes it even more difficult. That could be it...
2007-02-14 19:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you dont want to try anymore, trying again and again is in our male genes. go get that boo-tay! but remeber to practice safely.
2007-02-14 18:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by SARcasm,RN 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What about if you lay on your back and she comes on top??
2007-02-15 07:36:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dosen't she quide you in?
2007-02-14 18:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋