my best friend sees ''dead people''?

Question

mmmkay so my so called best friend lies alot...well now its just plain weird and stupid. she says she sees dead people, i ask her to describe em and she says she can see a little chinese boy (sounds to me she likes the movie the grudge),she can see a beautifull woman dressed in white yelling for her kids(the llorona) and blah blah blah. its so anoying and she always says that she is very special and lucky girl...(i say she's really special ed) how can i break it to her that i dont belive her for s****

Answer 1

some people have issues and feel they need to lie for attention or to appear interesting, the problem is some of these same people have a psychological problem that they actually believe their own lies. you could try to either act totally disinterested when she's spewing or be honest with her (although might end your friendship) and tell her you like her and want to be her friend but you can't deal with her outrageous stories. see if you can find out why she does this..........what is she lacking/needing?

Answer 2

Tell her that you also see dead people. Then you girls should compete to see who can see more dead people. Believe me seeing dead people does not make anyone special or lucky. If it were true it would be horrible, and she would not even want to tell anyone because of fears of looking crazy.

Bottom-line, tell her to stop the bullsh!t! If it doesn’t work, look for a more normal friend. One that only sees people who are currently alive.

Answer 3

tell her that you like her, you're not sure why but you like her as a friend. and then be honest with her. dont be a liar like her! and by putting up with her stories you are becoming a liar. you are pretending to accept her for all her craziness. tell her you want to be there for her but she needs to stop lying. and if she continues then tell her that if she doesnt get help at the school counselors or elsewhere then you cant hang out with her. because a friendship is worthless if its based on lies!

Answer 4

one way is that whenever u even think she's gonna bring up somthing like that - end that conversation and go to somthing else ...... also just let her kno u dont care - i mean really - look her straight in the eye and tell her u really dont care -
or another way is to give her a really bad nickname that has somthing 2 do with seeing dead people and she will hate it so much that she'll stop talking about it......
hope i helped :)

Answer 5

what was her arly childhood like perhaps she had a bad time and had to invent lies to get atention and now it is just normal for her and doesnt know how to help.
i would talk to her parents and see what they think.
there is nothing wrong with being worried.
if there is no good reason for the lies then i would tell heryou know they are lies and that if she doesnt stop you dont want to be around her anymore.

Answer 6

you gotta be careful with those kind, they're the ones that like to try to off themselves, when she least expects it, hit her in the head with a shovel, tie her to a tree, and explain to her how dumb it makes her look to go around and talk about movies as if they were real.

If she's going to talk about ghosts, tell her to at least make up something that sounds original, and not something she saw in a crappy movie.

I've seen plenty of horrific things in my time, and it makes me sick to hear about people treating the paranormal and supernatural as if it were some kind of toy to play with their friends about. There are things in this world that will make even the most manly and tough guy crap his pants in fear, and I'm not talking about manmade things either........

be careful when you play with the dead, sometimes they play back.

Answer 7

I would tell her to go to hell--er, i mean, Japan and to find the grudge. Or just call her out on it in front of ALL of her friends. All of them.

Answer 8

Just tell her tht if she dont stop tlking like tht then u dont want to be her friend ne more........
If tht dont work then tell her parents maybe they can get her to go to a phychyotrist (counselor)

ok well just try what i said hopefully it will work
Sincerely
Nina

Answer 9

just sit her down and tell her that because of the track record she is on w/ her lying, u dont believe her when she says that she sees 'dead people'
say it nicely...
good luck!!

Answer 10

okay this is imposable to see dead people... and if she keeps tellin you this just stop talking to her and say to her, " yeah okay if you keep saying this to me then like don't talk to me untill your done doing this"
and then sooner or later she'll tell you the truth.