okay, me and my boyfriend have been goin out for only 3 days,and hes deffinatly not the romantic type. he hasnt called me yet, i always call him, and ive been waiting all day for him to call, and its valentine's day. should i call him? idkkk.
2007-02-14 10:14:01 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda Krystan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
If you like romance, why are you with an un-romantic guy?
Just a thought...
He probably won't call since he's used to you being the one to call.
2007-02-14 10:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u, i'd wait for him to call. remember, the more u "let" him treat u a certain way, the more he won't know what u want, or what u need. the only way he will learn that is communication. wait for him to call, and when he does, make sure u give him a lot of praise for anything sweet he does. that will sort of let him know "hey, if i call her, she will be happy".... if it doesn't register, u may have to poke him and tell him at the end of the day that u were a bit disappointed, and that u'd like a boyfriend that makes u feel special u know?
the worst is when u email or call and send an ecard or something, and he doesnt' reply! and then u go "did u get it?" and he goes "yeah, thanks!". and ur like thinking Why didn't u call me back or send me back one??? Blah!
:) so.. most guys are kinda dense that way..they just don't "think" to do anything out of their way. it's only when u let them know, and they still don't change, is a problem. but dont' blame em til u try to teach em first!
2007-02-14 18:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should, you obviously want to talk to him. If he's not a romantic kind of guy that is OK, it is just not his personality. Call him and talk to him.
2007-02-14 18:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by lostrox77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldent. It sounds like you need a romantic so let this one go.
2007-02-14 18:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by dr.pepper106 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋