We've been together for 7 years.
2007-02-14 10:05:04 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It was my idea.
2007-02-14 10:10:54 · update #1
If you're comfortable with it. I think it's better to do it together rather than seperately if you're BOTH interested in doing so. Don't do it just because HE wants to go and you'd rather him not go without you. But if you both want to do it and see nothing wrong with it... go ahead.
2007-02-14 10:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have read all the answers previous to mine and all I can say is this;
The people who are saying that it is normal are only saying that because they do it and/or they're trying to justify it to themselves. You have to ask yourself honestly if you think most couples in a long- term relationship are gonna tell you that it's normal. If it was normal then there would be as many strip clubs as there are convenience stores. I personally wouldn't want the image of some other guy's dong in my wife's brain, and I certainly wouldn't want her thinking of some other guy while we're going at it. I'm the star of the show!!!! I'm quite certain she would feel the same. If you need to be stimulated by seeing other people naked in order to get it on with your significant other then you're with the wrong person!
2007-02-14 10:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok. Me and my husband went to a strip club the night we got married. Some people get more turned on when they see their wife get a lap dance from another female or get up on stage and dance with the other girls
2007-02-14 10:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whose idea it was --- And what club, do you watch girls as well as guys (I doubt it)
If its yours then I dont know lovely... He or you could reveal a side the other just doesnt agree with. If its his -- what a guy (slick sum mumma *&(#)@)
I would never take my wife, future wife or girlfriend of any lenght of time to a strip club. Not only are the dirty but it is just not intimate..... I luv to look at naked women just like everyone else but I really luv to look at the one I love - so I forego the club all together.
I am not judging I am just being straignt -- For example: If you and your husband divorce is this a topic you would want to talk about with the next man in your life? Hmmmmmm If you cant talke about it now or later -- then you should not being doing it.
Sho me wat ya workin wit.
2007-02-14 10:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by ddouglas36 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as you enjoy it, hun, then it's ok. If it makes you jealous, then def not ok. I have had more fun in the strip clubs than any of the men I've gone with. They usually wind up sitting back in their chair with their mouths hanging open like their jaw came unhinged. And I hate to tell you, but normal's not even normal anymore. If everyone were normal, this would be one boring world.
2007-02-14 10:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by ivy_trick_mess 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its fine. Shows you have a healthy trustworthy relationship. I went out several months ago with a bunch of friends and we ended up at a strip club. My first time there and actually it was fun. lol
A week later I went with my husband. We had a blast. Really turned him on too that I got into it. Have fun and enjoy!
2007-02-14 10:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by elena_398 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What may be normal for some may not be normal for others. As long as he has no problem with it and you are comfortable with it, who cares what other people think of your night out.
I congratulate you on the openness you have in your marriage. The trust he has that you will not make a scene and the knowledge that you arrived together and you will leave together must add excitement to you marriage.
2007-02-14 10:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i wouln't say anything was wrong with it if that's what you guys like to do my husband and i have been together 7 years and we've been to a strip club it was for my 21st b-day we had fun but now we just mostly watch porn and lots of it it spices things up and that's never wrong hope i helped ya and good luck
2007-02-14 10:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lenalu23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is very normal. My wife has gone with me on occasion. I do not frequent them but the last three times I went, I went with my wife and there were other couples in there. My wife loves it, the girls give her a lot of attention as she is quite the woman (milf). I think my wife is bi-curious which is ok as long she brings the 3rd into my bed...LOL
Seriously, it is ok to go to strip clubs with your husband, very normal these days. Try it, you may like it.
2007-02-14 10:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I often tell my single male friends who get upset when I decline to go to strip clubs with them that I would MUCH rather see my hot blonde wife get a lap dance in the champagne room then to watch them get lap dances! So to answer your question, I think it's fantastic! Couples that play together STAY together!
2007-02-14 10:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well its not normal but I went with my g/fs and some guy friends and it was fun. I think its great that you do, shows a lot of confidence and security probably because you've been together for 7 years, plus the fantasy thing is over the top huh? Get a lap dance
2007-02-14 10:16:18 · answer #11 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋