My Sister and my ex brother in law got divorse 3 years ago , few months ago i started going out with my ex-brother in law and we enjoy so much he seems like he loves me and i love him too , my Sister doesnot approve it but is it wrong to marry him ?
2007-02-14 10:02:25 · 35 answers · asked by Dayan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes! it will ruin the relationship with your sister forever
2007-02-14 10:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I want you to really think about that. Do me a favor an think about this question really hard what if you were married and you got a divorce then all of a sudden one day your sister is hanging with your ex more than ever. Think about how that would make you feel. Another question do you think that he won't do it to you? Look I am not judging you but sometimes in life there is a curtain line you don't and should never cross.Hey take your fishing rode and pull out another fish because that one is tainted. Just search deep within your heart for that answer but to tell you the truth I think you already no the answer to your question that's why you posted your question on line. You and your sister deserve better.
2007-02-14 10:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest a little empathy. How would you feel if your sister was dating your ex-husband? The whole situation sound very sticky. I think even you know this is not an ideal situation, that is why you are asking this question to a bunch of strangers. If you sister approved, then I would say go for it. Just think about all the people you are affecting for a relationship that has only lasted a few months. If your sister and him have kids together also--then you are potentially hurting them too. Good Luck!
2007-02-14 10:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by blah1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not say its right or wrong, if real love is there what can you do a about it. The only thing is the fact that family reunions are gonna be a little bit uncomfortable; people around you that knew your now boyfriend as your ex-bro-in law may find it awkward and make you feel bad, if you feel like is worth it go for it, even you have to trade your sister for your love. Good luck!
2007-02-14 10:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kent-B-True 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing stopping you from marrying your former brother in law, but you have to know that you are risking your relationship with your sister. Is it worth losing her over him? Also, it will affect your relationship with other members of your family. Consider family functions. How will your family feel when you bring him to Christmas dinner? Who gets to sit the dinner out because they're uncomfortable? You, or your sister? It takes a certain level of maturity to see how your choices affect others. Just be sure you've thought through these issues before deciding what to do.
2007-02-14 10:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally am in the same situation and No I don't think anything is wrong with it and your sister should be happy for you that you have found love! My sister and her ex have been apart for 15 years and Now I am with him. My sister does not talk to me anymore. And my 18 year old niece his daughter doesn't seem to have a problem with me dating her father so I don't think there is anything wrong with it.
2007-02-14 10:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the best husband in the world and he was my brotherinlaw (defacto ).We met up after a few years of not seeing each other, started going out , noone new for afew months When thay found out not many were happy, but what dou do live your life making everyone else happy or being happy yourself. We have been together 10 years and marriad 4 years with a 2 year old son . Still in love and verry verry happy.
2016-05-23 23:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand correctly, you're asking if it's ok to marry your sister's ex husband. I'd say no, not cool, you'd be a crappy person and sister if you did. Legal, but really messed up. I don't care how much you love this guy, you're just asking for an appearance on Jerry Springer.
2007-02-14 10:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by Fraggle rawk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is a little hard.For family's on both end as to what will say, but in the long run true love can over come what they think.Do what your hart tell's you & look if you last 6-10 or more no one will should care , that's if they don't have much going for them in their ligr that they'll still think of you 2.
2007-02-14 10:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to talk to your sister dont screw anything up with her. Make sure he feels the same. think about why they got a divorce in the first place will the same happen to you? who knows no one ever knows. Tell your sister how you both feel about each other and that you would like to marry him. But the main thing is your relationship with your sister that is the most important thing if it hurts her try tell her how you both feel about each other not one on one you both need to talk to your sister. If she sees you both love each other than get married if that is what you BOTH want. good luck.
2007-02-14 10:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by Momof4beautifulGirls! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you hear the rule of Don't date your best friends ex? That same rule applies to sisters..... You're asking for trouble. Why did he and your sister break up? Why do you think that your marriage would turn out any different. Plus, why would you stab your own sister in the back like that??? I feel sorry for your sister!!!
2007-02-14 10:07:06 · answer #11 · answered by Violation Notice 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋