Fat and personality....?

Question

Has anyone noticed that a fat woman can have a certain personality and we like her, but when she loses weight that same personality is unacceptable for a thin woman? Star Jones, Nicole Richie, and the same would be true if Rosie O'Donnell lost weight. They can be rude and bitchy when they are fat and it's funny, but a skinny woman has to be kind and nice or everyone will hate her. (Nicole Richie was just chubby, I know, but you get my point).

Answer 1

Lol
i never thought about tht but ur totally right
(and im kinda chubby myself)

Answer 2

I agree with what you are saying, because, yes, I have noticed the discrepancy. However, I know a lot of fat people who are fake-nice because they just want everyone to like them and not judge them for being fat. So maybe both sides have to fake it for fear of being hated.

Women in general can be cruel. I know lots of very pretty or rich girls who had to bend over to show how kind and likeable they are so people didn't write them off as rich bitches. We all guilty of tearing eachother down in some way or another. My favorite part in the movie "Mean Girls" was when they had to close their eyes and raise their hand if they'd said something untrue or mean about another female behind her back. That's exactly what happens. We all do it, even though we hate it being done to ourselves. When will we learn to build eachother up and keep a united front like the boys' clubs do?

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Rosie could slim down to a size 4 and she'd still an oinker. I know several women who are quite thin, and people perceive them to be bitchy... but in fact, they are just very assertive... much like many women who post here. They just aren't going to take crap from anyone, regardless of their jeans' size.

Answer 5

Star Jones had a "I'm better than you are" personality before she had gastric bypass.


Skinny people that are ignorant and bitchy, Paris Hilton, Flynn-Boyle chick...

I think you are being really closed minded.

Answer 6

Just maybe: We think that the "poor" woman has enough trouble and so we give her space. Or, a large person is intimidating and so we give her space.
How dare we respect a confident, assertive or aggressive woman who is tiny and really has no weight to throw around? It has got to be about looks and not content and we are mistaken in that.

Answer 7

I havent really ever thought of that, but it is sadly true. I am guessing people are more relateable and feel less threatened with heavier people than with a thinner person. It is a lot easier to judge or be more harsh with someone you are jealous of.

Answer 8

I guess we tolerance that aggressive behavior because we has some sympathy over them.

For the skinny women, there are certain aggression and jealous toward them, so the level of tolerance is lower.

Answer 9

Not really, I don't really care for bitches no matter what size. BUT, I can see where society is far more accepting of a black woman who is fat and sassy! Ain't that weird. If she's skinny, she's a rude biatch.

Answer 10

i disagree. i'll put up with a skinny girl longer than a fatty.

(also, those are unfair examples. those bitches are all unbearable.