why is it that whenever a black women sees a black man with a white women, they assume that he doesn't like black women? why cant it just be that she has a nice personality?
2007-02-14 09:53:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Cause he probably dont.
2007-02-14 09:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by warren_mallainy 3 · 8⤊ 7⤋
Because with 8 black women to every black man and half of them gay or in jail, and we love black men...we're jealous.
Also, there is an ugly history of black men dating white women not because the women were nice (that wasn't the point) but because they were right and it was kind of a status symbol...the Ferrari of women if you will and that OLD stigma still follows black men who date white women.
But you're right. If a black man ONLY dates white women because they are white that is a sad man who more than likely cannot substain a relationship because its not based on reality and he's a sad soul.
Me. I'm not bothered. I also date out of my race.
2007-02-15 16:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I dont really care when I see a black man with white woman. I date only white men, and it seems to me that its the black men who are usually making stupid comments towards me and by dates or boyfriends. Yeah; they seem to be checking me out and hating on the white dude which is wrong. I have even had cases where a bm/ww couple go by with me and my wm, and the bm always has a stupid stare on his face.
2007-02-17 16:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats true, I've had that problem as a black man. I'ts also just as bad when white guys see her with a black man, they really talk about her like crap. I don't understand
2007-02-14 18:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dane Cruz 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Because most of the time they don't and if you ask that black man, most of the time he will have many negative reasons about why he doesn't like black women mainly from stereotypes and past bad relationships. You must not have asked them because when does most men of any race like women soly on their nice personality? If my son came home with a white woman, I would disown him but he wouldn't do that because he would already know whats going to happen. Him coming home with a white woman is almost as bad as him coming home gay in my eyes.
I don't agree with what "Semper Fi 83" said but I applaud him for being a black man married to a black woman for 20 years. We need more long lasting black marriages like this to help rebuild the black community.
2007-02-16 04:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Conscience Sister 3 · 5⤊ 5⤋
I don't assume that. I really don't care, especially since I don't date black men... but that's another issue.
2007-02-14 19:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
your "why is it that" question is generalizing what black women think. You are assuming you know. Most of the Black women I know, myself included, don't think that the Black man doesn't like Black women. We think Black women don't want him because otherwise he would be with one.
2007-02-14 18:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by slinda 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋
I don't really understand why so many black men prefer white women??? If you compare the preferences of men from other racial groups (Asian, White), they always in most instances, prefer their own women. So why is it so different for black men????? When you take a closer look, it is kind of a bizarre situation.
2007-02-14 19:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by ORANGE JET 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋
That's a good question. People don't see it that way though. For some people, it's all about race.
2007-02-14 18:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Hey, I'm just glad to see a GOOD question bout this! Thanks girl! I don't choose the color, I choose the personality and how we click, so what if he is already black! ;)
2007-02-14 19:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by JůnəßůĢ 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
<=====this gurl doesn't care cuz she doesn't limit herself to black men
2007-02-14 22:53:38 · answer #11 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋