i am seeing this girl who has a fiance she says she will leave this guy but want say whwn , and at the same time she dosnt want me to leave , i want to walk away but i feel like i cant because its been a long time since i have had a gf .
i want say how long but its been a while what should i do?
2007-02-14 09:52:00 · 15 answers · asked by amontheblack25000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The problem with being in a relationship that makes you unhappy is that it keeps you from being available to meet someone willing to put you as their #1. There might be available girls out there interested in you, but you can't meet them unless you are available yourself.
No one is keeping score on how many girlfriends you have had. This woman is not your girlfriend because she is engaged to be married to someone else.
2007-02-14 10:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sonia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much potential for satisfaction here. She will probably marry the fiance, leaving you hanging, as she is stringing you along now. She just likes the attention. Chances are, her marriage won't work either. She needs to grow up yet. Keep her as a friend if you like, but look elsewhere. Go enjoy yourself. the happier you become, the more others will be attracted to you. You will have someone special soon, that way.
2007-02-14 18:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me ask you an honest question. Are you second best to another guy? Are you dirt or are you a decent human being? I am not the best looking guy. I am not the richest. My car is not the best. My job has its ups and downs. My education is just like everybody else. BUT, I never accept back seat to anything. Regardless of everything about me being mediocre, I am capable of anything and everything I want to do. Tell her to give you a call when she has broken up. If she doesnt do it fast, you might find someone. So, if she was ever going to do it, she would speed it up after that. If not, then you probably never had a relationship to start with.
2007-02-14 17:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a no brainer. WALK AWAY and do it as fast as your legs can carry you. My goodness there are untold thousands of girls you could meet and establish a relationship with. Life is too short to settle for less than what you deserve. Say you marry this girl and then she sneaks and sees the guy? this girl wants her cake and eat it too and does not sound like she has any feelings or moral values. Leave now and stay online and meet others. Good luck.
2007-02-14 17:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Gwen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being alone can be stressful but it can also be an advantage.If your looking for someone to be with she's clearly not the one.She enjoys different qualities from you and her fiance that's why she's with both of you.Everyone deserves the best in life:but you'll only get what you settle for.I know personally that when your looking for something special you pretty much collect a bunch of garbage.So stop looking.If your a genuine individual that someone will find you......walk away
2007-02-14 18:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy that had a fiance. Guess what? He never left her. Why should he? He was having his cake and eating it too. I'm very sorry for what you are going through, it is tough for sure. But be the strong guy you can be and walk away. Wait for someone who wants to give you ALL of themselves. Don't be sloppy seconds, nobody deserves that.
2007-02-14 17:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need a girl friend bad enough to stay in this mess. If she cheats on this poor fiance, what makes you think she will be faithful to you? You will end up as just the next guy in line that she uses. Dont walk, RUN away!!!
2007-02-14 17:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, get away from here, you deserve SO much better, and you will FIND that special GF not just a gf, a special one that cares what you feel.
She is using you, holding you to the side, she wont leave him,a nd if she does, why in the world would you want to be with her, this can be considered cheating.
good luck!
2007-02-14 17:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. If you wish to wait for her while she makes up her mind, that's your choice. But for now she's stringing you along. Be honest with her and make it clear you expect honesty from her.
2007-02-14 17:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with the relationship, let it be.. Give it time and it may come around.. You have to go with your heart.
2007-02-14 17:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋