I have two friends and a big decision to make. One of my friends is having a sweet sixteen and im pretty close with her and really like her. And this girl i met this year who is a year Older than me asked me to go to her prom. im not too close with her but our lockers are close and we talk a lot and shes the nicest person.
The sweet sixteen and prom are on the same day!!!
Personally i'd rather go to the sweet 16.
What would be the right thing to do? Please help me what would be virtuous and nice?
2007-02-14 09:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by scottieknows95 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
not looking for a relationship with the prom girl. but i would feel bad letting her down shes one of the nicest people ive ever met.
2007-02-14 10:01:01 · update #1
i just wanted to make sure im doing the right thing. this is the girls prom and if shes asking someone she barely talks to i just would feel horrible if she couldnt gelt a date. tickets go on sale to the prom this weekend.
2007-02-14 10:03:14 · update #2
I would go to the Sweet 16, considering that you are closer to this girl, it would probably mean more to her.
2007-02-14 09:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by kaleidoscope_eyes33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally would have to say go with the sweet 16 party as you have been friends for a while and i am sure it would mean a lot to her and obviously you as ell other wise you wouldnt be asking for help.
the prom is a big thing for a girl so you need to make a choice soon she can find someone else before it is to late.
if you are meant to be with this girl that is going to the prom she will understand that you cant desert your friend and she will wait for you.
good luck but in the end follow your heart as it doesnt really matter wht we say it is all up to you.
2007-02-14 18:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by faith m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the sweet 16. Sounds like you guys are close, and if the other girl is as nice as you make it sound i'm sure she'll understand, and probably have no problem finding another date. Just explain what's going on and it'll all work out.
2007-02-14 18:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by i_play_6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you looking for a relationship with either of these girls?
if yes, and its the prom...your sweet sixteen friend will understand, especially her being female, unless she likes you then...ouch.
anyway, I'm sure you have heard bros before hoes...forget that.
I'm 27 and married with a son...my friends are great, but love and family comes first and they understand that...god I'm glad I'm out of high school
2007-02-14 17:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a true friend an go with the sweet 16, for a friend alway their for others
2007-02-14 17:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what your heart and gut tell you if they say go to the sweet 16th party then go to if it says go to the prom then go to the prom me i would go to the sweet 16th seen as youve known her longer and shell never have another sweet sixteen but that what i would do but like i said at the top go with your heart
2007-02-14 17:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the sweet sixteen party you already said thats the one you wanna go to plus thats your close friend and you barely know the other girl so just let her know you cant miss your friend's party (you answered your question in your question)
2007-02-14 18:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋