said that she got raped?
2007-02-14 09:42:02 · 24 answers · asked by deal 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
some people are putting answers here as if it happened to me. I'm just asking, this never happened to me.
2007-02-17 16:28:29 · update #1
Take her to the hospital and call the police
2007-02-14 09:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by metoo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be supportive and take her to the hospital myself to have a rape kit done. I was raped many years ago and the worst thing (hearing from my own boyfriend) that I wasn't raped, that I had asked for it!! I had to deal with that on my own and it wasn't fun not having any moral support!
2007-02-14 17:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, listen, listen and periodically ask her if there is anything you can do for her. If at all possible, recommend that she go in for a check-up. This is essential whether or not she wants to prosecute for her own health and safety. If she opts to go to the hospital to be checked, be her advocate, remind the hospital staff that while this may be their 100th rape, it's her first.
You can also reassure her that whatever it took for her to survive the attack was the right thing for her to do. That this isn't her fault. And then, again, listen.
2007-02-14 17:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ann Poorboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insist that she speak to professionals and be examined. Offer to go with her for support. She should consider the "day after pill" to prevent pregnancy and should be checked for AIDS/Hepatitis, etc. She should also have access to professionals who can offer counseling. Rape must be reported and doing that has become much easier on the victims.
2007-02-14 17:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by kk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get her to be checked out at the hospital (rape kit) please do it. It will be one of her only chances to win if she's EVER ready to press charges. If not though, don't push too much, just be there. There's NOTHING that you can say to make it better right away but your campany will hopefully be comforting until SHE decides to do what's best for her.
2007-02-14 17:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by Caitlin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to go to the police station and they will do what needs to be done. (take her to the hospital for a rape kit test). support her
2007-02-14 17:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Joannie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to her right away and make sure she was alright. Then take her to the hospital and never leave her side, no matter what!! Once she's alright, I would hunt down the bastard and kill him!!
2007-02-14 17:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would MAKE her go to the hospital and file a police report.
2007-02-14 17:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to the hospital and gather evidence first, then call the police and make a report
2007-02-14 17:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go to the hospital and tell her to call the police.
2007-02-14 17:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by Demetrios 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to go to the er. And try to convince her to call the police.
2007-02-14 17:45:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋