how do i tell one of my closest friends i really like him? i mean he knows i like him but has no idea that i really, really like him.
2007-02-14 09:36:38 · 30 answers · asked by Art 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is a little young 18 and I don't know what to tell her..cuz I'm 27 and a guy
2007-02-14 09:37:15 · update #1
I know it's not about me -she just feels comfertable asking me -because me and her sister used to dat along time ago.
2007-02-14 09:40:40 · update #2
I meant comfortable
2007-02-14 09:41:06 · update #3
I meant comfortable
2007-02-14 09:46:59 · update #4
Thank you all very much...I appreciate it -this girl is like my little sister y'know
2007-02-14 10:01:57 · update #5
This is an easy one. You call or email or text message this guy and ask him to do something like have a meal, Starbucks, etc. and then you get him talking about something (men like to talk about themselves as we all do) and tell him you would like to hang out or see a movie, etc. with him sometime because you find him SOOOO interesting, smart, cute, funny...lay it on they all love it. Good luck!
2007-02-14 09:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Gwen H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's your appropriate response:
I think you should be up front and honest with your friend. Simply tell him that you have discovered some strong feelings for him and wondered how he feels. You should be aware that he may not have the same level of feelings for you and understand that it doesn't have to be the end of a friendship. I would also suggest that if there is a large age difference that you friend will probably bring this up as a perfectly valid reason to not let the relationship go beyond friendship.
That should tell her 2 things, 1)advice on her question and 2) your not interested.
Good luck and becarefull you are treading on thin ice here.
2007-02-14 09:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by wrkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your girlfriend is just under the jail bait age. Seriously, she is most likely very immature and needs to grow up about 5 years before she can consider any romantic relationship. Otherwise, within a couple years, instead of being good friends now, the breakup possibility is very strong. She can wait... What about college or a trade school? Get those careers moves done before getting real serious. Otherwise, it will not happen.
Plus, does she really think the guy wants someone who is not mature enough to hold their own?? Think about it...
2007-02-14 09:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Helen A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say the same. Tell her to be honest and up front about it. If you don't want that sort of relationship with her and you fear that she means you then it would be better to set it straight now. If you are the one she is talking about and you don't say anything she will just get deeper feelings and eventually will get hurt way more than should have. Then you will have it on your conscious
2007-02-14 09:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by sinnxxdevice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that she should go ahead and tell him...as along as she knows that it will not mess up their friendship or relationship in any way and she's comfortable doing it. Even though she's just 18 that's old enough to be able to go out with someone...so, just tell her to go for it an good luck.
2007-02-14 09:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sally Doll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to send the guy an e-mail to tell him. If that guy is you, move on to step 2. I don't know if you like her or not so only you know what step 2 is.
2007-02-14 09:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that he probably already knows and if the feeling is mutual, he would tell her. Otherwise, just keep things as a friendship.
2007-02-14 09:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you buddy. She's still young, and they do things like that with people they feel comfortable asking. Its totally about someone else.
2007-02-14 09:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by DEPRESSED ICE AGENT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just say it.. it won't be easy but straight out honesty is always cute.. some guys like it when girls can be upfront and honest about their feelings and emotions.. Don't hold things back.. If she can text it or email/my space it.. .then do it.. just in case she's that shy... if not.. in person..
2007-02-14 09:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Foxy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 and 27 is not such a big difference - if you like her too, tell her that, if you don't do not hide behind your age
are you really, really sure it is not about you?
2007-02-14 09:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋