2007-02-14 09:28:55 · 39 answers · asked by smarttyebony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cut off his manhood and run like hell.
2007-02-14 09:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best remedy I have found for a hobby that wants to fight is for him to be fought back. That usually shocks them into submission. Never let some hobby beat on you without putting up a decent fight-remember, they all must sleep sometime.
2007-02-14 12:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw hot grits on him, then call the P-O-L-I-C-E. Seriously, you need to get out of the relationship. It may not seem that easy to you, but nobody deserves to be beat on. Don't worry about finances, where you will live, etc. There are shelters. If you have family members that you can count on go there. Get a restraining order. If he is extremely abusive and a stalker you may have to move out of state. If you have to leave while he's at work with nothing but the clothes on your back and your purse and your kids if you have any, do it.
2007-02-14 10:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to leave him. A man can only do to you what you allow. I've been in abusive relationships and have found that the only way to fix it is to leave the other person. If the other person loves you enough, they will do ANYTHING to get you back, get counseling, stop putting hands on you, stop cheating, anything. For me, I found out that the other person didn't love me enough to change, I went back and the abuse stopped for a couple months but he started right back. It wasn't a loss on my part, I just realized that I'm too good to be put through that abuse and moved on. It wasn't meant to be. I wish you the best of luck. You are a beautiful woman and no woman deserves to be hit.
2007-02-14 09:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, there is already a problem in your relationship that is why there is an abuse.
If you want the relationship going...what you can do is to seek help. Get a counselor to help you go through the situation with him. Tell everything to that counselor so that he/she knows what is going on.
Sometimes it's hard to leave the person you love most. But if this occurence happens a lot, then you are not on the right relationship. You know better and I know you can do it! This is NOT a healthy relationship and YOU've got to remember YOU want to LIVE not DIE.
Good Luck to you.....
2007-02-14 10:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by C. J. V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY to hear this , YOU need to get out of the relationship before it ends bad ,look i have a sister who went through the same problem her boy would beat her for the least of things she would still say she love him until one day she got hurt real bad that she was hospitalize for a long time would not like that to happened to you ok. YOU DON'T have to be beaten like ur an animal regardless if ur wrong or right.Get help by getting a restraing order if not u will regret this
2007-02-14 09:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by DJ REAPER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate beating!!!!I hate even to hear that word!!!I grew up in a family where my father was beating my mom so bad and million times I felt so helpless,I couldn't help her much.When I was fed up with all that I couldn't stand watching any more bloody beds,her blue face,closed eyes...I said to her to leave my father!!!So am saying to you the same, leave him!Find some place at your friends,parents,or go in another city,just leave him till it's not too late.It's not only bad for you,but the kids will suffer also,they will have trauma through all their lives...I'm not sure about police,because in my country they can closed him for 30days and that's it,or write him some punishment,they are not helping much,and when he will get out of jail he will become even worste!!!Don't think you don't have where to go,how to start your life without him,there are always opportunities,and something will just appear to get start your own better life!!!Release yourself!Good luck,and I am repeating leave him,he will never change,believe me!!!
2007-02-14 09:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by HPA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either charge him with domestic violence or get a baseball bat, smack him upside the head and hopefully that will knock some sense into him. If you happen to use a little too much force then plead self defense and temporary insanity. No jury will convict. Dont by any means put up with his crap. Good luck
2007-02-14 09:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't see why you'd want to ask a bunch of random lonely people over the internet about what to do about your husband beating you.
These kind of problems are extremely personal and I recommend you see someone you trust in person. Go talk it out with a therapist or someone who specializes in these sorts of things.
2007-02-14 09:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by sebwitha3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave immediately!!! You should also seek help from your local women's shelter and/or mental health agency. They could even help you locate housing if necessary. You also need to look into getting a protection order.
I like the idea of throwing hot grits on him, but that could get you got....better to just leave.
2007-02-14 09:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by answergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to stop this is to get away from him, and refuse to be treated like this anymore.get some self respect and u won't let people do these things to u anymore. know that this is not normal behavior at all and there is something rotten inside of him.
2007-02-14 09:56:19 · answer #11 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋