MY GlRLFRIEND IS PREGNANT,SHOULD I TELL MY WIFE ITS HER FAULT SHE LET HER LOOKS GO AND DOESNT TURN ME ON?

Question

she didnt take care of her body and i find it hard to make love to someone whos quite fat now and has saggy breasts.

if i make the effort to look good then so should she,ive had loads of offers from women but ive stayed faithful to the 2 of them so far,if my girlfriend lets herself go too then ill just take another. im here to bring pleasure to women i expect them to make me happy to make love to them, not see it as a chore.

Answer 1

you gotta do what a dude has got to do.

Answer 2

That isn't the best thing to do. Maybe you should of talked to her before you decided to cheat. If you did everything in your power to make it work...then you leave. I'm 27 years old and was married for 7 years and with him for 11 years. Sometimes people just lose interest. In your case you step over the line with cheating. To many people get hurt. Not just your wife. Your family,her family and a good possibility your girlfriend will because if you cheated on your wife what makes her think you won't do it to her?? If you tell your wife that comment that is down right cold and heartless. Not only will she find out you have a girlfriend and she's pregnant you will put her in such a deep depression and her self worth will be gone. Can you really live with that?? Knowing you vowed to love, HONOR, and cherish is now like the dirt you walk on?? That is how she will feel. Think before you talk to her. The only advice I can give is just walk away. Don't be mean. End it and be done with it.

Answer 3

WOW! How is it your wife's fault you could not obey your marital vows....or do they say until wife puts on weight? You won't always have the build you do now, however I don't doubt you will always have the inflated ego. I guess you only married her because she looked good on your arm, a proverbial token wife.

How would you feel if she came to you, telling you she was pregnant with a REAL mans baby and it was your fault because you ignore her?

Get real BOY, this is the real world, when the girlfriend realizes you would rather look in the mirror than at her, (if she has brains), she will run to the nearest exit. When you grow up and become a man, you may deserve a wife.

Answer 4

Telling your wife it is her fault you cheated -- is lying. You made a choice to cheat, it's no ones fault but your own. You are the one that is weak and can't handle the reality that people change. You married her for better or for worse. I'm sorry she doesn't turn you on anymore but is it not still the same person you married.

Maybe you could talk to your wife about her looks in a positive and encouraging way. Tell her how you feel; maybe offer to go on a diet with her. Diets are hard, and it's a vicious circle. I promise you she probably doesn't feel very sexy and you acting in such a manner makes it worse and harder for her to do something about - especially if she were hot before. If she felt more sexy, she would act more sexy and odds are she may actually become sexier.

Answer 5

Wow, there are actually people like you?? I thought it was just some urban myth or something!! But you actually exist?? You were obviously dropped on your head as a child. You've failed as a husband and as a person, you can dress it up however you like, but its YOUR fault that your wife is the way she is. Being with a tosser like you has probably wrecked her self confidence!! Or maybe she is just depressed because she realised what a shallow, self loving, idiot she married. What prat posts this type of question??

The worst thing is that your child hasn't got a hope in hell with a father like you!! Good luck cos your gonna need it when your old and lonely and still think your Gods gift!! You obviously have serious issues and you need some professional help!! Go to group therapy, you know, "hi my names, blah, blah, blah and i'm a waste of ******* space.

Your family must be sooooooo proud of you!!

Answer 6

It's not your wife's fault. I know that may not be what you want to hear but it's the truth. My ex husband cheated on me and had a baby on me and we are now divorced. Why haven't you talked to your wife and told her? She is your wife and she may have changed for you. Did you think about your wifes feelings before you went and slept with another woman? What would you do if your wife came and told you that she's pregnant by someone else because you're too demanding. In your vows didn't you promise to be with this woman for better or worse? We do change over the years, do you think you still look the same as when she first married you? I think that was selfish. You owe it to your wife to tell her the truth. I don't think you should tell her that it was her fault, I mean damn, it's going to hurt her enough that you not only cheated but got someone else pregnant, but to add insult to injury and tell her it's her fault is just cruel. I think you're selfishly looking to put the blame on her, take responsibility for your own actions.

Answer 7

no, not at all. you should continue cheating on your wife with other women istead. Of course you won't want to stay with the GF now that she is pregnant because between pregnancy and hormones and all that, and of course after she has your baby, her body will change. And she will be busy with the child. So now you much find another woman to cheat with.
By the way, how come you didn't go with a basic avitar instead of putting that photo up? Gay body builder photos are a little odd, considering the question you asked.

Answer 8

Can someone tell me how it is tw@ts like you who cheat and seem to be generally w@nkers have no problem getting people pregnant where as other people who are far more deserving to be parents and will not wander just because their partner has a few more pounds and is not the pretty young thing they married any more have difficulty.

It scares me that there is still men like you around and I seriously wish that you meet with a very nasty accident that hopefully results in you losing your manhood in the door of an express train

Answer 9

So why don't you GET DIVORCED first, then go find someone else? What's the deal? Are you keeping the wife as some sort of Security blanket... just in case you get rejected? Why do you even get married in the first place then, if you KNOW you have the abiltiy to 'cheat'? It's just not fair to WASTE someone elses time. It's just plain selfish to do this!

You should stay single and enjoy yourself. Sounds like this is the only love your capable of in the first place.

Answer 10

No, That would make you a pig of a man! If your so concerned about your woman getting fat then perhaps you need to find a woman that is the same way. Like a body builder. Instead of dumping a woman because she gains weight. And if you do that to every woman your with then it was never really love to begin with and you have no business getting married anyway!

Answer 11

yes that would be a wise thing to tell her, did you stop to think that it is a possibility that she does not care that you got your girlfriend pregnant. If you were my husband I would wish you well get my looks back to where they were before I met someone that has dragged me down so far I cannot fathom the thought of one more day with you and hoping you think I am unattractive so you won't want me, then once I do that I go find me some awesome guy who treats me like I deserve to be treated and in the meantime take you for everything you have.