I have thought hard about this. I don't know if I should ever get married.I will adopted Children and they will all be from diffrent Countries and I don't want them to go through what I went through when my parents got a Divorice.
2007-02-14 09:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jessie 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
I will Date but not marrie
2007-02-15 08:19:08 · update #1
live for the day.......not everyone is the same.
2007-02-14 11:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by **ZARA** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How beautiful marriage is in Islam
People take being married for granted. When youth today are faced with the questions concerned with marriage they become scared ...
But marriage in Islam is nothing to be scared of because it helps us with our din.
Actually marriage helps us as youth stay away from premarrital temptations and getting caught up in zina. Al-hamdu-lillah that he has brought us something, Most Gracious Most Merciful, because he knows we as slaves get caught up in the flesh and start to do things like those in the Western Countries.
The Muslim family is one of the most important things dealing with this din. We are judged by how we raise and take care of our families.
If we as Muslims plant the seeds in our chilldren Allah will guide them to the right path. The offspring we produce can determine our place in Junnah. But everything is descended from a strong foundation and if
all the rules are followed from the Qur'an and Sunnah and all things created fear Allah We as Muslims will be guaranteed a successful marriage.
Thoughts by : Jeane Foster - USA
2007-02-14 17:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that's lame. sorry. ok, so if they are adopted, this would mean they already went thru what you did when your parents divorced maybe even worse...each marriage is different you just have to find that person for you...and when you do you have to work on staying together and its not easy...some people love each other but their relationship could never last cause their not compatible. so girly you just have to close you eyes and take the plunge when it comes to marriage. as far as adoption, im all for helping children in need.
2007-02-14 17:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by KT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU WILL MISS OUT ON SHARING YOUR LIFE WITH SOMEONE WONDER JUST BECAUSE YOUR FOLKS GOT DIVORCED DOES NOT MEAN YOUR MARRIAGE IS NOT GOING TO WORK. IT IS EASY TO GIVE UP HOWEVER IF YOU WORK AT IT, IT WILL BE GREAT. ABOUT THE CHILDREN THEY NEED FATHERS TO DO THE THINGS THAT MOMS DON'T. ADOPTING IS GREAT, BUT DONT YOU WANT TO SEE WHAT COMES FROM YOUR BODY?
2007-02-14 17:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by jazzylust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think that children should (where possible) grow up with a mother & a father ??
2007-02-14 17:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Aussie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children need both mother and father and whos to say you won't find true love
2007-02-14 17:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by :-) Lovely(-: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't.
2007-02-14 17:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋