I am 24 almost done with school....i plan to teach ESL in Korea and eventualy get my masters in australia......then PHD who knows were.......by the time i am done with my world travelings I'll become a college rofessor and i'll work 20hrs a week .....Morgage, car payments, insurance, kids, wife, kids,.......way too complicated for me......And I also like being in love, so when one love ends i will begin new love with somone else, peole get married for love then 5 years later there togheter becasue their are married f that......................DO you feel my flow?
2007-02-14 09:00:49 · 8 answers · asked by uknosergio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people don't want a long term committed relationship. This is not a problem if they are open about this with the people they let into their lives. It becomes a problem if they are promising things they don't intend to follow through on in order to get what they want from someone.
It is NOT immature to not want to be married. It is a deep seeded feeling in many people. There is such a pressure today for people to get married. Its not for everyone, and god forbid if someone gets married but doesn't really want to be in that situation.
Good for you for deciding this on your own. Don't let others decide for you.
2007-02-14 12:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by DevonChaos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have been married for almost 6 years. I can honestly tell you that we love each other, just as much as the day we said I do. I really think that there are ppl in the owrld, who just were never meant for marriage. I know some ppl may think that sounds crazy. However I do believe it. You are 24 and still have your whole life ahead of you. I know when I was in my early twenties, marriage was something I didnt give much thought to. I am 28 now and can say that when I look back at who I was, and who I am now. I couldnt be any happier if I tried. I would not change a thing. You will find what life has in store for you. So just make the most out of it now, and dont worry about the future. Good Luck, I hope you find what it is you are truly looking for!
2007-02-14 17:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're not the "marrying kind". So don't get married. Not everyone on this planet was made to be married...I'm one of those. I enjoy the company of some very special people but marriage/living with someone is NOT my "cup of tea".
2007-02-14 17:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a BOY that doesn't want to work hard or take on responsibilities.
You have some embarrassment over NOT being a MAN with manly responsibilities.
The choice is simple, if you want sex you have to be a MAN and take on the responsibilities associated with sex, children and a family.
If you want to be a BOY fine but don't be banging something if your not ready to be a father, mother nature could care less about your qualifications once you stick it in. The rest of society and the offspring do care.
2007-02-14 17:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whatever rocks your boat... I do agree that you should follow your own path and do what you feel is right for you. Just because other people want to get married, doesn't mean you have to. I personally like being married, but it's my personal preference.
2007-02-14 17:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope I have no clue what you are saying exactly but it sounds like in your selfish little time line world you will never understand the true meaning of giving so good luck mate I hope your life at least seems fulfilled.
2007-02-14 17:09:54 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ditto that no marriage for me either....having too much fun being single
2007-02-14 17:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
On your way to this celebrated life of intellectual stimulation, could you please learn how to spell, thanks.
2007-02-14 17:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋