Most people here are either: 100% gay guys and girls, bisexual girls or straight and that's it. So, any bisexual guys here? I have some questions (I'm gay by the way):
- When did you realize that you're attracted to men as well?
- And when you knew that, did you have sexual relations with both men & women, or did you keep going with men, and did it with guys later?
2007-02-14 08:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sorry, change the last "men" to "women"...
2007-02-14 08:56:39 · update #1
Grinder's response is almost identical to mine. I can function with women, and do, but prefer men as more exciting. That I can have sex with either male or female qualifies me to be bisexual, but I consider myself basically Gay. To me, there really is no middle ground. Functioning and preference are two very different things. Kinsey believed that people were either Gay or Straight, regardless of how and who they had sex. I agree. And it is no big deal. I think many Gay men prefer to think of themselves as Bi, for in a twisted sense, it makes them feel less "gay" and more acceptable in society. I do not agree with this at all, for I see nothing wrong with either Straights (it is not their fault) or Gay.
2007-02-14 09:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first sign that i was attracted to guys happened when i was about 25-26. i officially recognized my bisexuality at 32.
all my life, i felt uncomfortable with sex with women.. so this speculation was always there.
so at 33, i had a little experiment with a guy just to see what it would be like. we didn't get totally sexual but there was touching and stuff..
in the end, i figure i am capable of being attracted to men or women.. but for me, it's not about sex. i want love first.. i also want biological children, so i would assume that i will likely end up with a woman, if i do in fact ever meet mrs right.
i have bigger issues though. i'm a transgenderist and will be exploring the possibilities of sex change, so this could make things even more complicated..
2007-02-14 18:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived on both sides of the fence, married and had a lover on the side. Functioned with both just fine. Social pressure certainly contributed to my dating and marrying, but even so, I was attracted to women, but always had a best friend (male) that was friendship only. When I "came out," it was with a bang, had sex (Passively at first) with the man, then things grew into a love of a lifetime. Eventually, my wife and I decided that it was best to separate and find happiness for both of us. I have gone out with women since, functioned just fine, but prefer men...so does that make me bisexual? I don't think so...I have a preference for me, so i consider myself to be gay. I am not sure there is such a thing as a truly bisexual person. Most people can function with either sex, but all I have known have a real preference....gay or straight.
2007-02-14 17:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, while they are more of a minority than gay men or bisexual women, I have seen quite a few bisexual men on here, and have responed to their questions and seen their answers.
Don't worry, they're here.
Sorry, I'd answer your questions, but I'm a woman.
2007-02-14 17:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you see many Bi guys here, or real gay guys here, because this has degenerated into another place for little red neck homophobes. You will have to seek another venue.
2007-02-14 18:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this personal research? I don't know of anyone who is 100% anything.
2007-02-14 17:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they only come here 50% of the time, lol
2007-02-14 17:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by TRACER........................ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm hiding. I'm shy.
2007-02-14 17:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋