I just moved from a small town to Montreal for my boyfriend, and now I find myself not having any one to confide to except for him, but there are just somethings that don't seem right telling him. What should I do?
2007-02-14 08:47:54 · 8 answers · asked by Zig 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do you work? or Study? if so you will meet new friends, you can always contact your old friends too.........
or you can find someone here to chat with sometimes, feel free to email me anytime.
2007-02-14 08:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah... I don't advise a singles website, since you just moved in with your boyfriend!
Here are some ideas. First, get yourself job searching if you haven't already. You'll meet a lot of people as you go around interviewing, etc, and then have workplace friends as well.
Second, pursue your hobbies. Sign up for classes offered by the crafting store, or a local university. Get yourself out of the house!
Third... reconsider whether or not you can talk to your boyfriend about what bothers you. The more open and trusting your communications, the easier this transiton will be for you.
2007-02-14 16:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left my small town once moving to a big city in another state and had the same problem. Thank God it was temporary. I hope this isn't your case, but the people in the town I moved to just weren't friendly and I never met a friend to confide in. Going places like the grocery store, library, church, you should meet some women to get to know and hopefully, you'll find at least one true friend, as we all need them!! I call it my therapy! I'll offer to be an email buddy anytime you need one, just let me know!
2007-02-14 16:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to hang out in places that you would've hung out at at your old place. I moved to a new area last summer with my best friend and found myself lonely as ever. I made some new friends at my job and starting meeting people through them. I even hung out at a local bookstore and met some interesting people. It's ok. It just takes a little time to adjust to a new surrounding.
2007-02-14 16:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and about and meet some people. The might be some clubs around that are just for women. Make enquiries about this sor t of thing etc.
2007-02-14 16:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your going through i went through that to and i now most people do but when you've been through it as much as me you now a thing or two. first of all it's perfectly normal secondly your not going to be able to just talk to him. some people find it very easy to make friends but if you dont concider volentering for stuf aroud people who are also new to the area. that should help there's also lots of hotlines you could call to talk to them about stuff you dont want to talk to your boyfriend.
2007-02-14 16:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need a gf to talk things over with. Try joining a bowling league==dart team==church group --something to meet some women.
2007-02-14 16:52:52 · answer #7 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word :mingle!
come one have some fun and make friends. you cant be shy forever
2007-02-14 16:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by starstatus586 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋