I really like this girl and I want my friends again.What should I do?
2007-02-14 08:45:44 · 15 answers · asked by Johnmark Hendrix 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try to balance out all the relationships. you're friends aren't really friends if they won't accept the person you're going out with. but don't spend more time with her than your friends. my brother made that mistake. he's going out with someone and spends all his time with her and doesn't do anything with anyone else. you don't want to make that mistake, believe me!
good luck =)
2007-02-14 08:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel like you should give up either one. If your friends are really your friends they will understand that you have to put some time aside for your girlfriend, and you can put some time away for them as well.If your girlfriend has plans elsewhere take that chance to hang out with your friends, I'm quite sure she hangs out with her friends when she has time. You and her need to compromise when it comes to hanging out with each others friends, let each other know that you will pick certain days to hang out with friends, or try hanging out all together.I don't know if she likes your friends or not, but it seems to me that your the one who wants to spend alot of time with this girl, so if that's the case then don't blame her if your not giving your friends any attention.But try and find a way to meet in the middle. Because most of the time guys and girls come and go, but usually your friends are always there, if they are your true friends.
2007-02-14 16:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart. You can listen to your friends advice, but you must make your own judgement to stay or break up with the girl. If you really like her maybe you should give her a chance and if it does not work out at least you won't live to regret it.
2007-02-14 16:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by scarletny213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if there intentions are honorable or if they are being shallow. If they are honorable and really feel that this person is bad for you to be around be cause you may get hurt or a bad influence, then let the other person go. Now if they are doing it just cause they dont like her, or because of shallow reasons, then you need to ask yourself if you are your own man and can make your own decisions.
2007-02-14 16:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by spanishfly_100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask your friends why they won't hang out with you anymore. Are they jealous? Did your date say something bad to them behind your back? Who pissed off who, if anyone? If your friends are truly your friends, they will tell you why they won't hang out with you anymore, and you can work it out and maybe everyone can hang out together and you don't have to give up anyone. Maybe the girl you like is bad for you and your friends know it and you need to admit it to yourself. Maybe your friends are bad for you - that's always a possibility. Ask yourself which people you have healthy relationships with. The ones that are bad for you need to go. Nobody likes having to start over, but in the long run, you will be better off surrounding yourself with kind, honest, loyal people. It's tough to figure out and tough to actually "cut the fat" and end bad relationships/friendships. Good luck!
2007-02-14 16:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by bitsonews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friends why they dont like her and see whats up? But make sure the girl likes your friends as well! If the girl doesnt like your friends maybe you shouldnt be with her but if the guys dont like the girl try to get them to think different
2007-02-14 16:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by lana07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should decide if they were really your friends in the first place if they cant accept you because you like this girl then too me it sounds like they arent good friends. if she makes you happy then stick with it cuz thats what its all about.....being happy. maybe bring it up to your friends and tell them that it might be a reality check for them but dont not date someone for what other people might think of you
2007-02-14 16:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by tai_mai_shu_sr07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of depends why they wont be your friend. I would not give up friends for a relationship. I cannot imagine any reason why my friends would not be my friends if I was with a certain person unless they thought this person was bad for me.
2007-02-14 16:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why your friends are treating you the way they are because they might not like the girl for a reason. and if they reason is a dumb one, then they are really not considered friends.
2007-02-14 16:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you really want friends that would drop you for going out with someone they dont like or whatever the reason is? they dont sound like the best friends to me. anyway i would talk to them, see what exactly bothers them, and try to work something out. they dont sound like the best of people to me but thats your decision.
2007-02-14 16:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋