how do you know if he's the one?

Question

There are two amazing guys in my life.One is my boyfriend and one is my best friend who says he is in love with me.My boyfriend makes me happy,except when he's not fighting with me,and my best friend makes me feel...like something i cant explain.like a bubbly champagne bottle.so my q is...they say look into your heart...how do you know who is the right one for you?

Answer 1

well, as the saying goes, "you end up marrying your best friend."

this bubbly champagne feeling... i've had it myself. often while around someone i have a crush on. do you have romantic feelings for your best friend? are you attracted to him?

Answer 2

Lobby for an open relationship. But seriously, don't forget that the bubbly feeling always goes away eventually. If your relationship is bad, get out and try a new one. But if it's good, you might not want to throw it away.

Or get them both into bed. It's your call. ; )

Answer 3

i can only tell u what convinced me that the guy i have spent 30 years with was the one. there is a chemical called pheromones that humans excrete,kinda like animal musk, i knew when he came to see me after work with out showering first, and i liked the way he smelled.

Answer 4

The right one for you is the one who respects your wishes and never tries to manipulate you for his gain.
He wants you to be yourself, warts and all.

Answer 5

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Anyone at any time can ask her spirit guide / holy spirit / teacher / angel / whatever you want to call her / him—we all have one with us at every second of every day...we are not thrown into this brutal place without help.

Ask....If you are not afraid, you will be answered directly. If you ARE afraid, you will be directed to an answer without even knowing how.

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