me n my friend got in a HUGE fight. i've known her for maybe a little over 4 months n we've fought plenty of times. she's annoying n she complains all the time. she also likes 2 turn things around on me like it's all my fault. whenever we get in fights n it's her fault she'll lie n tell her mom that it's my fault n her mom will call me a little brat. we only talk over the internet. she's rude towards my other friends 2. but that isn't why i'm asking this question. we got in a fight cuz her ex bf's sister told me she hated her n i don't know his sister that well so i told *A* that she said she hated her. she didn't believe me n i got mad. she never believes me though. anyways she asked *D* if she really said she hated her n she said i was lying which made me sound like a fake. then we get in a big fight and she calls me names. should i forgive her?
2007-02-14 08:42:34 · 11 answers · asked by Abby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best answer I can give you from an outside view- No. obviously if she doesn't believe you when you tell her things she doesn't trust you. Four months is long enough to make a connection (believe me i met one of my best friends and trusted her within the hour-she has yet to betray me in three years). She doesn't trust you, she lies and she's rude. all of which she accuses you of. I would tell her that you can't be friends with her if she doesn't trust you. and if she's talking with her mom about you she obviously has issues to work out and needs an attitude adjustment. Best of luck in life and love!
2007-02-14 08:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! Let the little witch stew in her own soup so to speak. A friend does not act like she doing. Has she apologized about the names and backstabbing stuff yet. If she did apologize and you took her back you won't be able to forget what she has said.
2007-02-14 16:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we can focus on the good of people , then we find a reason to say good about them.
This has a postive effect on our relationship.
It is called growing up and being a friend.
Best wishes.
2007-02-14 16:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by walter b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've known this girl for four months and you fight all the time?
forget her. she's not worth the drama.
2007-02-14 16:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive her, and don't talk to her again. Sounds like she just makes your life miserable, cut her out. Good luck!
2007-02-14 16:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have kept your moth closed and not gotten involved in it!! Now you know for next time!! Live and learn my friend
2007-02-14 16:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like you should find a nicer person to be friends with. i dont think you should forgive her, because she sounds really mean.
2007-02-14 16:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Blenderhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that girl..shes not worth your patience and...just forget her!! lol = ) â¥
2007-02-14 16:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ryskaya♥Devchenka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her to the curb if she cant appreciate your friendship then you have no need to acknowledge her existence
2007-02-14 16:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO
2007-02-14 16:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋