There is this guy, he's my really close friend, and he just recently told me that he liked me as more than friends. I told him that I just wanted to be friends, and he said ok and nothing was awkward, but now I'm having second thoughts. Is it wrong to like somebody when they don't like you, and when they do like you, you stop liking them? I'm so confused!
2007-02-14 08:32:17 · 7 answers · asked by retooser 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not wrong at all. Tell him that you didn't think of him that way, but you are starting to see him differently. If he's already a close friend, you know he's a good guy. Good guys are hard to come by! Tell him you realize what a catch he is and that you've changed your mind. Then kiss him and see what happens. Good luck!
2007-02-14 08:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by karebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not.Why would you stop being friends.Its called a crush.If you want,you can go out with them.Its okay.I went through the same thing,but I'm no Matchmaker,you know just be friends for a couple days and then ask him/her to gout with you.Its easy.Trust me.Just don't break the friendship up because its going to end up to really bad things.Bye!Hope it goes well.Good luck!
2007-02-14 16:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Johnmark Hendrix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your second thought is that you like him, go to him and say you really do like him and you hope he still likes you, but it was just so sudden that you didnt know how to react. And its not wrong, but you need to sort out your feelings before you do anything. You dont want to tell him somthing, then regret it!
Hope this helps!:)
2007-02-14 16:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say it, then i guess so! Sometimes you must think before you say things. Reading you question, i got confused, too. Try talking to him again, and this time, express your feelings. Tell him what you think of him, and then tell him your second thoughts. It just might work out!!
2007-02-14 16:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong to like somebody when they dont like you. but who said he didn't like you anymore? Tell him how you feel
2007-02-14 16:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMM
WELL JUST THINK OF IT THIS WAY:
IT BETTER TO HAVE A GOOD FRIEND THAN A BAD LOVE!
AFTER ALL ALL YOU GOT TO LOOSE IS A FRIEND....
BUT YOU HAVE TO TAKE THE DECISION!!!
2007-02-14 16:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by A. RMZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO AFTER HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL.
2007-02-14 16:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋