I am a really cool and tall guy at school I can really do my math fast and I dont know everybody dislikes me and I have barely friend evey time they forget homework they ask me for to show and I show them my answers and when they need a pencil or paper or eraser or additional help they ask me for it and when I ask something they are rude to me and mean if I ask for something before I can finish my sentence they tell me to shut up and I feel bad and I like to help them because they are helpless. And some of them really hate me.I dont why? and I am they guy who never had a girlfriend and my age is 13.
2007-02-14 08:30:44 · 5 answers · asked by Srinivas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey I haven't had a boyfriend yet and I'm 12 1/2 I'll be 13 on june 1st.
Anyway its kinda ironic because you sound like me a little before I moved.
Sorry, anyway try this just be yourself and still help them but when they make fun of you or tease you or tell you to shut up ignore them, and act like you don't care what they say. Thats what I did and it worked they left me alone and I made a lot of new friends. Also I think you have a click infestation a.k.a. people who will try to make your life a living hell. But some of them are just following the leader bnecause they are afraid the leader will make their life worse than a living hell.
P.S. if you wanna know more heres my e-mail
shootinstar16@hotmail.com
2007-02-14 09:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by LivingInnuendo~♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats no fun... I agree that they are just using you for when they need something... I have been the one being used, too. Just keep confident. Don't be completely rude to them but sometimes you need to say no. They see that they can use you and you are letting them.... By saying no, you are showing them that you are recognizing what is going on and you're not "desperate" for friends. Keep focused on your school work and don't worry about jerks like them. Don't worry about the girlfriend thing either... She will come along eventually... You're only 13, you have plenty of time left for that. :)
2007-02-14 08:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by sweetjackieangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, i does no longer difficulty approximately girlfriends at your age! you may wish plenty once you become previous! some day a woman will see you for who you're and desire to be your female buddy! i'm sorry you do not have any 'actual' acquaintances! they are far from being helpless, they are utilising you by using fact they do no longer desire to do their own homework! do no longer provide them to any extent further solutions! they are all able to doing their own homework! in the event that they are not in charge sufficient to come lower back to classification arranged, that may not your situation. you at the instant are not assisting them with the help of giving them solutions and supplies! that may not your accountability! learn confusing, get a robust education, bypass to college and make something of your self!
2016-09-29 03:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by carol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are taking advantage of you. they pretend they like you when you help them, but then push you away when you need something...im sorry...its tough, i was that kid too.
dont worry about the girlfriend thing, it will come along eventually.
2007-02-14 08:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by lyrathefairie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are rude to you then when they ask you for help dont help them use the mirror effect do the exact same thing they do to you and see what happens
2007-02-14 08:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by sean jackson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋