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I am 16 yrs old. and i have been physically and mentally abused ever since i was 8. my father and mother calls me names constantly. they always finds the littles flaws in me to make them mad so they can hit me. i have been beaten up by my dad numerous times. the last time this occured was this morning.i try to fight back but i just cant hit my own father. he said next time hes gonna put me to sleep. and my mom lies to my dad just for him to hit me. saying i did things i dont do. i never like to go home, i would rather stay at school and thats bad. i am not a bad kid. i dont deserve this. i cant take it anymore. what should i do

2007-02-14 08:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by Walter 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

9 answers

,If you are telling the truth about the abuse you are experiencing with your parents, then you need to find someone that you feel will be able to give you some shelter, if you decide to tell the authorities of your abuse. No one, should live his life being miserable all the time,knowing when you wake up in the Morning if you will be able to at least breath without fear,that there is not going to be any beatings for you. I know how you must feel, I, too was an abused kid, when I was growing up,I felt like what's the use of living if there will always be more beatings from my mom, who for some reason out of eight kids, I was the one that she always found fault with and would always beat me up with whatever, she could lay her hands on. You are not alone, there are a lot of organizations that if you or someone can call their hot line number and report what is happening to you they will remove you from your Parents house, to protect you from harm. Child protective services is one of them or as I told you in the beginning, your local Police Station should be another alternative. Good luck and I hope that you will try to find someone to help you with this predicament you are in, you are not a slave, so don't let them treat you like one. I care.

2007-02-14 09:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0 0

Wow this is a serious situation. You need to speak to someone immediately wether it be a teacher,family member or anyone close. Your parents dont have the right to physically and mentally abuse you. My advice is to get out of there as quick as you can and to tell someone immediatley. If your father is making death threats you need to contact the police or someone of high authority even though hes your father no father should lay a hand on their child or make death threats. Remember you are not alone in this and to talk to someone.
I hoped i helped and i hope all goes well.
xoxoMoeisha

2007-02-14 08:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by Moeisha 2 · 0 0

First, i'm very sorry which you have have been given had to undergo those years of abuse. while you're in the u . s . a ., then the criminal device incredibly show you how to down. this might properly be a problematic question, yet one which is amazingly suitable. i does no longer call myself an Atheist, in view that I do have confidence in a bigger potential, yet i do no longer think in prepared faith. One college of concept is that if God is extremely coming up all the existence, and each little thing is preplanned, then you might in easy terms adventure problematic situations that rigidity you to upward push above them. This makes you a extra advantageous individual, as i'm confident everybody who has confronted confusing stressful situations of their existence and made it by using assist you to comprehend. and you may in easy terms face stressful situations which you're waiting to deal with. yet there are issues of that argument... specific, tragedy makes some human beings better whether it additionally destroys others. i actually went by using a confusing existence that become crammed with drug dependancy, poverty and unquestionably no destiny. yet a technique or the different I controlled to conquer them, yet many I knew did no longer. And that assertion that God in easy terms sends you what you could cope with, yet some human beings in basic terms make undesirable judgements by using fact God provides loose will, does not carry any weight once you study it to human beings international extensive. babies born in Ethiopia, case in point, are starving to dying day in-holiday, and the AIDS orphans in Africa are in certainty in a lifeless end project. that still applies to the brothels in Bangkok the place young babies are bought with the help of their opium addicted mothers and fathers into prostitution and brothels, the place they are crushed and forced to have intercourse, which leads them to getting HIV and then AIDS and thrown out into the line. They get no help from their government or police. those human beings, extra effective than in all threat, won't in any respect see the different element of the tunnel. So the place is God in those situations? each and every so often i've got confidence that if Heaven and Hell do exist, it incredibly is solid right here on the earth.

2016-09-29 03:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by carol 4 · 0 0

i am sorry about what you are going through. it must be very difficult for you to write these words. However, i can tell that you are very strong individual. but, here is what i suggest, since you are 16 years of age you need to go to your school social worker or counsler and report this to them when it happen again. aslo, create a juornal and start writing what happen becasue that would help you to find an answer to your question.
so;
writer your journal
speak to someone who know how to help you and provide protection and who is welling to listen without judging you.
remember we are all human and we deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.

good luck with that and i wish you the best.
M.

2007-02-14 10:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by MSW 1 · 0 0

GET HELP! Tell your teacher, Principal, School Counselor(that is why they are there), Aunt, Uncle, Grandparents, Minister, Parents of good friends- anyone who is an adult you can trust.

Your parents are abusing you and should get help. You do not deserve it. You do not deserve to be fatally hurt. Get help now!

If you can not talk to anyone above, there are abuse lines in your local phone book. Good Luck and I will keep you in my prayers.

2007-02-14 08:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by chickemama 3 · 1 0

Wow! Your sixteen years old...do you have any siblings? If your really really serious I WOULD LEAVE! Why put up with physical and mental abuse?

2007-02-14 08:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

do y\ou have anyone that you can talk too, is there anyone you can tell. you need to let someone know what is going on or call cps(child protection services)

2007-02-14 12:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by misseshodges 2 · 0 0

you need to tell someone what's going on at home, maybe a teacher, conselor, one of your friend's parents, or a relative. you need help getting out of there or getting help for your parents. no matter what you do your parents should NEVER hit you. please keep telling someone until they help you.

2007-02-14 08:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by firefly 4 · 2 0

i agree with firefly, you need to tell someone about this now!

2007-02-14 08:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 1 0

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