last night i dreamt about a male friend that i like!!! any way in the dream for what i can remember is that i was texting him and i decided i would go visit him in is work( which in real life is about two hours away) and it was the nighttime and he was workin in an office, when i go into his office i sit and wait for him and i start to chat and help other people that are waiting around too, and it seems as i do this for the majority of the dream, wating for him to come over, but he finally does comeover and asks why i was helping his customers?? what in the name of god does this dream mean can any one help?? ( i would not like jokers answering this, but i can be one of those sometimes, so i still expect ye to answer :p lol)
2007-02-14 08:16:34 · 18 answers · asked by misssherlock06 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think your dream means.....this is someone you like (as you have stated) you "long" for communication.....you are reticent about "HOW" your feelings might affect him. You end up being questioned by him....which is not the same as if he were to come over and say thank-you. And that probably means you feel a little insecure. So in the end it's only a dream.. Maybe you should try saying HI! to him in real life :) Gd Luck!!
2007-02-14 08:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is some desire in you. The desire to get a closer relationship with this guy. However, "waiting" in your dream plays important part of the meaning.
In other words, you are hesitated to do in real life. Project a long wait in the dream symbolizes doubt when it comes to courage to open up. By the time he answers, you projected different question about customers. That is a divert attention. In other words, you are still afraid to project him to open up.
Remember this is yoru dream, he in your mind symbolize what you are wanting for. People saying in the dream also symbolizes what you want the outcome or reflects yuor mind.
In your case, you feel low esteem and you feel like not being accepted no matter what you try. I guess you have low confidence when it comes to social life. In other words, you may be shy!
2007-02-14 16:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting on someone in a dream reflects a lack of action on your own behalf. When he approached you, was he happy you were helping or upset? If he was happy, your subconscious is telling you to take action. If he was upset, even you subconscious is unsure about this guy.
The fact that you traveled to see him shows that this is a journey for you to approach him yourself. Do you remember traveling or did you just arrive? If you simply arrived, there is an urgency to your emotions. If the trip felt like hours in the dream to simply arrive, you're scared of his reaction to your arrival.
or it could be just a screwed up valentines day dream. :)
2007-02-14 16:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by karebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously u like him, but u will have to work hard and wait long to get him! And it will involve a lot of other people! He might not be to happy with the idea, otherwise he would've praised u for going through so much trouble!
2007-02-14 16:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tinkerbell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to get involved in his life, but you know there is a part of his life that he wants seperate from you. Making his workplace close to you in the dream is wishful thinking on your part that he was emotionally closer to you in life.
You helping the customers was taking part in his life, maybe being a part of his family-helping him out, and his annoyance with you was your fear that he will reject you if you pursue him romantically. It doesn't mean he WILL, but it is your fear nonetheless.
The fact that it was night merely means you desire him physically, and you want that booty call, but you ended up having to distract yourself until he was ready for you...perhaps related to sexual frustration.
Ask him about the dream.
2007-02-14 16:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously fancy him and your dream was your way of checking up on him, getting to know him better by being in his world. Nothing to worry about Missy.
2007-02-21 15:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi u think a lot on him u try to do every thing around him to help so he fell in your love so u know that but u try to make yourself not care in real live so in deep in your mind no secret or pretend that you know really know what are you do OK you try in dream to be onset with yourself
2007-02-14 16:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by ***** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very interested in pursuing the guy. You went to his workplace! You did his job!
Quit waiting for him to do something. Act on your feelings.
2007-02-21 22:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing I can tell you about that is that you are a very helpful person towards anyone? am i right? do you like to help people that you dont know?
2007-02-16 15:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by good4yew2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have an attraction to your friend at some level.
Or you want hime to offer you a job.
2007-02-14 16:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋