Im 18, and i live in Arkansas. The person i am seeing, i think he only cares about sex..How can i find out? Does he really love me, or should i move on and find someone else.......Someone rescue me!!!
2007-02-14 08:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by arkguy2007 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, we in Arkansas are not immune from the H*rny Monster anymore than anyone else. If you feel that way, you probably have a reason. If you think it, ask him and try to find out. Perhaps just asking will be enough to "wake him up" to the possibility of losing you. However, at 18 (and I assume he's near your age), he may be just a horn dog and think about sex all the time. Sorry, that doesn't make him a bad person, just a man! Just understand that its the hormone workings, not something "he enjoys." Trust me, I remember being that way (and stil am to some degree) and its just not ideal to always "need it." Have some sympathy for him (unless he's cheating).
2007-02-14 08:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being a gay man, I can not speak for them, but from the gay man friends I have, I find that they are not just looking for sex. Gay men want love too. Maybe you need to ask the important questions that are on your mind. This will help you see your way to your true answer which needs to be from the heart.
Sex is on the mind of men every 20 minutes. This is a male human condition for gay or straight men.
It's part of the reproduction nature of men.
Hope I have been of some help.
2007-02-14 08:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by ms b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loosen up. a million) no longer all gay sex is composed of anal 2) no longer all gay adult men anal 3) there are a number of of alterations to sex that are gratifying i'd advise that you do not concentration too a lot on the anal sex. Meet a guy and connect with him on an emotional aspect and the phyisical will come as a organic progression. The closeness of being with someone is outstanding and your BF will settle for you for who you're. don't be bothered the small stuff. U could have the closeness without the anal. I met my BF at the same time as i grow to be 16 and we in trouble-free terms did the sex aspect at the same time as i grow to be 19 and for 3yrs we were satisfied and inlove and getting to attraction to close about one yet another as childrens and there grow to be not in any respect any anal. perhaps as you grow old ur interest will be peaked and u will attempt new issues. solid success mate.
2016-12-04 04:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men, gay or otherwise, are not interested in connecting with someone on a deeper level. I don't think much of that lifestyle, but around here it's not a good idea to start casting that stone.
Find someone who shares the interestes that are important to you. Never get in a relationship with the notion of changing how someone behaves.
2007-02-14 08:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming your boyfriend is 18 as well I can only answer 1 way. He's a guy and he's 18. Gay or not that's all ANY guys care about.(genarally speaking of course)
2007-02-14 08:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this, but i have sometimes found that gay guy's like to make a show of their gayness. like it's a style or fad or something. i think this concept makes some gay guys become obssessed with the gay things they should be doing...like sex. i don't think every gay guy is like this, like you for example.
i know it sounds harsh, but that's the vibe i pick up from a lot of homosexual males.
2007-02-14 08:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one who can rescue you. if you choose to accept a man who treats you as a cheap peice of meat then that is ultimatly your choice. i am sure you know how he treats you what his intentions are. remember why buy a cow if you get the milk for free. if you sell yourself short you have no one to blame but yourself. truth hurts but it's the truth
2007-02-14 08:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hike around Mt. Ida or Ft. Smith. Think and enjoy !!
2007-02-14 08:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people are like that, some people are looking for a loving relationship too, but its up to you to decide what you want.
2007-02-14 08:20:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I very grateful I don't live in Arkansas.
2007-02-14 08:29:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋