no, what shoudl I do. I dont intend to break them up but I just wanted him to know
2007-02-14 08:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by covergirl1303 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I had a crush on a friend once, I finally told her and it didn't hurt our friendship at all. It just reinforces that I can tell her anything.
2007-02-14 08:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he happy where he is now. If so i dont think you would want to change that. If you did tell him and he didnt feel the same way it would make things a lot harder. Between you, him and the gf. I would wait. But if you know he is not really serious about this other girl then i would take the chance. Be sure first. You wouldnt want to lose your friend ship with him if you were wrong.
2007-02-14 16:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe you when you say you dont want to break them up, otherwise, why would you think of telling him. If you tell him, then he may feel the same, and this will put him in a situation. I think you should be the friend you have been, and once the opportunity presents itself(when they break-up), then tell him. I hope it works out for you!! Good luck!!
2007-02-14 16:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by Who Dat Chic!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always want people to be open and honest about their feelings towards other. Saying "hey you never know what will happen when you tell them" but this is a tricky one. But my opinion is that you should just let these feelings go. I know easier said then done, but this guy obviously does not want to be with a man, tell tell sign the girlfriend! Now i know what is running through your mind maybe he likes both men and women or maybe he just has a girlfriend to cover up the homosexuality that you probably believe is inside him. If he is using his relationship with a woman to cover up his homosexuality then do you really want to be with someone who is uncomfortable with their sexuality. And if he likes both men and women then right now he is into women so just let him be, push these feelings aside and MAYBE he will see that you like him and respond in the way that you really hope he would now. But for now try and get over him. Now they say the best way to do that is to get under someone else. Sike just a joke! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-14 17:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a man breaks up with his present girlfriend so that he can be with you, he'll break up with you to be with the next girl.
2007-02-14 16:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea ... when the gf is out of the picture then tell him ...
2007-02-14 16:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell
2007-02-14 16:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Khatima G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no .... if you truly love him.............. you will want the best for him (not yourself) and you will let him go.
2007-02-14 16:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by zee zee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋