Why are some teachers so young (in their mid to late 20s) and so damn gorgeous?? I find myself feeling very uncomftorable being taught by someone the same age as my boyfriend..however it's fun to look at them and then fantasize ;) why do you all think? And to the young teachers..would you ever consider having some fun with an attractive student who was over the age of 18 and never told a single soul about your fun together? Fun can mean just a date somewhere or something sexual as well..I'm just curious to know so don't instantly judge my curiousity as sick or gross ( I am over 18 and the teachers I have interest in are in their 20s)
2007-02-14 07:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by Tricky 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
-Also..any teachers out there ever secretly attracted to a student even thought you would never pursue the student either because you are married, don't want to lose job..etc etc etc
2007-02-14 08:24:13 · update #1
It would violate ethical standards for an instructor to get involved intimately with a student, not to mention subject himself and the institution to possible law suits.
I taught at a law school, and many female students invited me to coffee, lunch, passed me their numbers, or asked me for "personal help."
Tempting as it was, I had to turn them all down. I did so graciously, so that they would not feel uncomfortable in the class.
2007-02-14 07:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HAHAHA...ok where do I begin. The reason for the young part is because the vast majority of the population is baby boomers who are nearing retirement age. When they leave, the cheapest way to replace them is with someone that is young.
Would I ever consider having some fun with a student? Let me tell you, this is alot easier for a female teacher to do then a male one. We are all scared to death of getting caught and losing our jobs. Just the suspicion of doing something like that and what could happen scares me more then anything imaginable. We aren't dumb either: high school kids LOVE to yap their mouth and gossip, so you are virtually guaranteed that its gonna get out.
Oh yeah...a big reason why you are attracted: its the power, trust me. Those feelings are gonna go away after you graduate, and its just gonna be another attractive 20 something man. The same ones that were all into me before they graduated don't even bother to write an e-mail now that they are gone.
2007-02-14 09:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well first thing keep in mind if you like to have some fun from your Teacher,it's depends how well you can establish the relationship with Teacher.Love may happen,and it is not how much you both do......but how much love you put in that action.And have some fun.
2007-02-14 07:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by sunny p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Offer to help her with something after class. Perhaps she needs some boxes moved at her house. See where it goes... I would say good luck, but it appears you may already be a lucky guy.
2016-05-23 23:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would give you a bad rep. people would say, "Ohh that girl is going out wit a teacher so she can get good grades. thats just wrong"
Im not saying that but others will. oh yeah your boyfriend can get angry and go after the man
2007-02-14 07:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see a problem with it but They can lose their jobs if someone finds out.
2007-02-14 07:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by dlschnathorst 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT WORRY
Almost all of my friends have a crush on these two teachers who are soooooooooo hot!!!!
In my school, it is definitely true, so I'd expect the same in your school.
2007-02-14 07:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by ..... 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know how you feel. Its like you are fantasizing about them and then they call on u to answer a question or somthing. And you all droolin. LOL. Why
2007-02-14 07:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by MZ.NEZ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋