just want to prove that there are people thats been together 5 years or longer that has never had a fight that almost ended their realationship.
2007-02-14 07:34:37 · 22 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well marriage isn't a bed of roses - well maybe it is if you add the thorns. They use to say that the first 7 years was the hardest - then I heard tell the first 15......
I'm telling you that it whatever you dare make of it. The secret isn't how well you perform in bed but how you perform out of bed. It's got little or nothing to do with sex (it helps but) it depends on your action outside the bedroom.
The real secret is to never ever allow the honeymoon to be over. Even after marriage - there should be a date night set aside once or twice a month every month.
The wife and I are going on 19 years this July....hang in there
2007-02-14 07:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Grandfather Oak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define fight? If you're asking if a couple can sit down and talk things out, without the screaming and yelling drama...yes, and I am living proof of it. Let me tell you it has not always been an easy thing to do either. The person who answered you saying that someone is lying about it, is misinformed. First and foremost you have to respect the other person, second see the problem in perspective, how serious is the problem in the first place! This is not a competition of who can scream the loudest, or throw the most items at the wall, it's a relationship.
2007-02-14 21:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by facefind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible to argue and disagree with your partner without coming to the brink of divorce. I have been married for 34 years and consider our marriage to be happy and successful. However, we can and do disagree with each other. But, we know that none of these disagreements is going to lead to a divorce.
I think a lot depends on the maturity and self-confidence of the people involved. People who love and respect each other, are mature and successful, seem to manage to stay together (in spite of the occasional argument).
On the other hand, if the relationship is filled with jealousy and insecurity, and the partners are immature, then I think the arguments are more frequent and more destructive. Those types of arguments may very well end their relationship.
This is only my opinion, I hope it helps. Good luck.
2007-02-14 07:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We got into a fight that almost ended our marriage 5 days after getting married!
2007-02-14 07:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is ridiculous and fantasy. It is a healthy part of relationship to fight now and then. Not fist fight or fight to end the relationship, but anyone who says they have been together for 5 years and have never fought, they are lying.
2007-02-14 07:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by NLH823 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've will have been with my fiance six years in April. We have only had a handful or "real" arguements and NEVER one that "almost ended [our] relationship."
We just bought a house in November and are living with each other for the first time and we still haven't fought.
2007-02-14 07:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Just tryin' to help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone says yes...they are telling a lie
When you are because you are pulling two totally different backgrounds together...and staying together is hard....so, I know for a fact that if people don't have those kinds of fights along the way in their relationship, they will eventually fall out forever....
Why, it is nature to work through things and get things out and have those "pow-wows"....
If they have had that kind of fight....then they are going to bust wide open because they are holding things in....
So, someone may be saying yes....but...that can't last forever.....
2007-02-14 07:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I swear to you, my wife and I have not fought in years. We have a very good system of communication where we discuss everything. We're open and honest and respectful about our feelings.
It;s not a lie. I'm just very lucky to have her.
2007-02-14 07:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How boring...that means there has been NO make up sex..cause that's the best kind...no fighting also means that one of them doesn't have a opinion
2007-02-14 07:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
lol No way unless your marriage is a dictatorship and one person gives in all the time without a fight?
2007-02-14 07:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly V 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋