She was in gym and this girl (im going to call her)Melanie said she was sexy. My friend Vionica was wearing a bra that had her breasts practicaly out and some tight undies but anyway she told me that melanie started to kiss her (this was after everyone left for home they were still in there) and then she took off her bra, and vionica was fingering her etc. She said it was fun but wants to know if she is still a virgin since she didnt have sexual intercourse with a guy before. (my friend isnt me so dont think that)
2007-02-14 07:34:26 · 8 answers · asked by TastyCookies 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks for sharing..and yes she's a virgin.
2007-02-14 07:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the definition of "virgin." In my opinion, gender doesn't matter. If they had sex, then no, she's not a virgin. But (once again, my opinion), fondling and kissing isn't full-on sex. I guess the line's harder to define with two women. But I'd say if the undies stayed on then she's still a virgin. I'm a lesbian. I think she'll know when she's had sex with a woman (if she wants to). Many heteros would consider her a virgin until her hymen is broken (that's the technical defining factor with intercourse). Out of interest, why is her status as a virgin so important to her?
2007-02-14 07:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by kacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, lord....the childrens hour again. 1) Do NOT believe anything Melanie tells you, it is probably a come on towards you
2) if it were true, of course she is still a virgin...you loose your virginity when your vagina is penetrated....
3) there are a lot of people claiming to be virgins...who in the hell would want an amature in bed?????
2007-02-14 07:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her asking if she has lost her virginity sounds very immature. Virginity doesn't really matter unless it comes to having penetrative sex for the first time, in which case the hymen is broken and it is typically painful / sore for the woman.
Any other concerns about virginity are social conditioning.
2007-02-14 07:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question came up a few weeks ago. For heterosexual purposes, if she's never had intercourse with a guy, she's still a virgin. For homosexual purposes, no, she's not a virgin anymore.
2007-02-14 07:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gave herself to someone, no matter their gender, then some would say she's no longer a virgin. Others would say that it depends on if her hymen was broken during the encounter.
2007-02-14 07:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stay away from predators like Vionica.
Vionica was doing what guys do but Vionica doesn't have the equipment.
2007-02-17 13:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she had impure thoughts... she might as well gone all the way!
2007-02-14 08:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋