Being married for one year my wife told me a couple of weeks ago she her previous partner was over 10" and said she feel she is not getting enough satisfaction from me. I am just over 7.5" and always felt comfortable with that but now it seems ones a woman had such a large one they seem to think back of her previous experience. Is it true such size feels so much better for a woman?
2007-02-14 07:01:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually, I have a queston for u:
U have been married for a year? She knew ur "size" b4 signing the marriage contract and just NOW she has a problem?
The question is : Why all of the sudden after being married to you for a year, her "ex" comes into the conversation and suddenly blurts out she prefers bigger?
mmmm, maybe someone has been sidestepping?
I can tell you I already know where she is heading....
Good luck anyway.
PS
Size to me unless is extremely small, does not matter.
Its how u "work it" that makes the difference.
2007-02-14 07:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by RR77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does matter, both the length as well as the width. If a women was used to a well endowed man and then chooses a partner whose family jewel is just a few inches less then she can definately, I guess you can say, feel the difference.
Perhaps you can try different positions with her and such and see what works best for the both of you. Remember, you are in this together. I just hope she comes to realize that and wants to work with you on this.
2007-02-14 07:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by TheOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to offend some of the people on here but I will give you an honest answer. Yes, size matters. Intensity is greater with a well endowed man and all the right spots get touched and hit. Nothing compares to being filled completely by a man. The trick for men and women is to find the right partner where this happens. But to answer your question honestly, size is important and how you use it is a very close second.
2007-02-14 07:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this is just like everything else. It is determined by individuals for the most part. So women say size doesnt matter, while others will faint over a large penis. If she is cheating, she is using whatever excuses she needs to use in order to justify herself. 4" or 12", they will still find reasons to be upset, mad, pissy and to cheat dude. Dont buy here lines, for that is all they are. Instead of putting the blame on herself for being a s l u t t y, adulterous women, she is attempting to make it your fault somehow. I would suggest that you sink this wenches ship. Go after her with a vengence she cant imagine as yet. Married only a year and this is how she is treating you? Dude, she likes big penis? I would make sure I was the biggest d i c k that I could be and screw over her well.
2016-05-23 23:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know for my wife she likes size but not the way most are thinking in here. I'm not huge as in length but very wide or thick. She said she prefers that over a really long one. She also has said that everyone is different and sometimes smaller, larger, bent or whatever is better or different for her. We use toys that are different shapes and sizes.
2007-02-14 08:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women are "size-queens" and while she may well love you and plans to stay with you, she may periodically crave what you cannot provide for her. I think the choices are obvious: 1) work on your technique 2) Accept that she is prefers someone larger and let her satisfy that urge 3) Learn how to use the toys that will satisfy her urge. Good luck.
2007-02-14 07:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn bro that's kind of f**ked up....... first off you need to check your wife...... she shouldnt be saying that sh*t to you.
Make sure and tell her about how much better some of the features were on some of the chicks you did before her.
you would have thought this would have come up before marriage.
I say slap her in the face with your d*ck and if she complains just tell lucky for you I am not 10"
2007-02-14 11:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by RedEye 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you brother. She unjustifiably assaulted your ego and your self esteem. I wish I could be of more help. Maybe this will help:
Your stuff is just as good as hers! I bet it feels just great to you.
Who's to say that your penis isn't big enough? You could just as well say her vagina isn't tight enough. But the whole issue,at its core, is rather childish. Neverthless, we often act like children.
I know what it's like to get blindsided by comparisons to some of my wife's past lovers and it wasn't always about sex. As best I could, I forsoke all others but I'm often quite wrong too.
One other question - Can she hold the mud?
2007-02-14 10:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by TzodEarf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't drive yourself crazy about it. I have had women that think i am too big some think just right and others have said average... It all depends on the woman and if she wants a huge cock then there isnt any thing you can do about it so i wouldn't worry.
2007-02-14 07:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by hunter6543 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all your wife is an idiot for even saying that to you,
Personally I've had both and much prefer the smaller one, when it's too big it only hurts and no pleasure.
2007-02-14 07:14:27 · answer #10 · answered by Niki 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋