My boyfriend and I broke up recently and we(actually) he decided to try stay in contact and build friendship. We've been together for 3 yrs. As far as I know he still keeps my e-mails under folder "baby" and stuff like that. We call/text each other on the regular basis (twice a day sometimes) he beleives that we'll do better off as friends. But the only thing I don't understand is, do you think he wants some sort of "break" or maybe hoping for us to build our own lifes and then try again. Can somebody explain me what it is??? I'm confused. Don't wanna talk to him about this 'cause it will scare him away (I know that for a fact) we still haven't see each other since break up and don't even know when to expect it (I would love to see him,but don't wanna rush things)
Please help me!!!!
2007-02-14 06:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you love something - set it free - if it comes back to you - it is yours - if it does not - it never was....bout says it all...good luck
2007-02-14 07:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The staying friends thing don't work most of the time. This time it could though there is always the possibility. Just see how things go for awhile and then you will see where the relationship is headed.
2007-02-14 07:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by *be_23* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You were a big part of his life for a long time and he still needs to know you are there ,as a safety rope, perhaps?
Or he could be a caring chap who wants to make sure you are still ok.
Let things take their course ,my mam always said "If it`s meant for you , you will have it."
Myself I would put him out of your mind, enjoy life and see what happens. All the best.
2007-02-14 07:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by dancingcar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't know what he wants and he's just taking time out to try and work out what he wants
try to talk to him gently about it but dont push the topic it might push him away even further
2007-02-14 08:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by stace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To preserve your dignity, stop any kind of communication with him for a while. If he still needs you, he'll initiate it. Sit back and watch.
2007-02-14 07:09:38 · answer #5 · answered by richeb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both obviously still have feelings for one another, but give him space and if he trully loves you he will realise this and soon come back, after all abscence makes the heart grow fonder
2007-02-14 08:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by tracy w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him. I always talk things out with my boyfriend.
2007-02-14 07:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him. I always talk things out
2007-02-14 11:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only wanted to break up coz he is scared/insecure with him self
just relax dont think about him too much
if its meant to be it will be
2007-02-14 10:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by mike l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just clarify things with him and if he wants to be 'just friends' then move on. If you cling he will run.
2007-02-14 07:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋