since the beginning of my junior year in HS things are just falling apart. I'm not doing as well as i usually do in school. im not doing as well in lacrosse. i have no date to prom after asking 6 different girls. and my grandmom died. things just arent working out for me. i can't talk to my parents about anything and teh only person i can talk to is 500 miles away in college. i just dont see why i should even try anymore. any advice?
2007-02-14 06:58:20 · 13 answers · asked by KG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey, I am sorry you not doing as well as you usually do in school and lacrosse. I'm in high school too. I know what you mean, it can be tough at times but it just looks like you having a rough patch in your life. Junior year is hard with SATs and applying for colleges and prom! It seems very stressful at times, but you can't give up. Things have to get worse before they get better. It also depends on what kind of attitude you put into things. For example 6 s rejected, don't think "Why don't they like me" think "They're not worth my time anyway" Cheer Up! You have to remember to think positive, If you think more positive, things will be more positive. Sorry about the lost of your grandmother, my grandfather died a few months ago as well. Don't be too hard on yourself, Im sure you are a great guy. Good luck and remember what I said!
2007-02-15 11:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by dogtreats100 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Call" the only one you can talk to who is 500 miles. My advice though, is toughen up and do the best you can. It will get better. I know your Grandma is gone and it's hard to grieve but, believe me she is at peace now. Your parents are probably grieving in their own little world. Turn your negative energy into positive energy. Be the best you can be at Lacrosse.....and I bet that there is still one girl out there that has her eye on you. Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it's what's inside that counts. Again, think positive.
2007-02-14 07:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 500 miles is nothing in today's world.Thats not a good reason to avoid sharing ur feelings.And u can make some new friends here on yahoo if u like.Dont worry its not ur time but it will come soon when everything will go the way u like.Good luck
2007-02-14 07:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by cutiepie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 02:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by fogleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, ur puttin urself out there which is good, maybe ur just asking the wrong girls. they probably r some girls that have nuttin in common wit u, so why not look around and ask someone who actually gives u the eyes, and I happen to be free to talk so y not ask me. but ur life is not fallin apart, it's just alittle difficult right now. just chill, u'll b allright. and tell ur parents what the hell ios going on, remind them that they brought u into this world and they have an obligation to listen to u, if not then maybe they are too damn selfish. i'm getting myself mad.....
2007-02-14 07:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by shady_charisma15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you that everything in life happens for a reason.....you may feel like things are going so bad but you have to keep your head up because life is such a precious thing that you cant throw away or give up on because your having some issues...keep your head up and dont let it get you down....you have to enjoy life because you never know when it could be yur last day...keep strong sweetie!!
2007-02-14 07:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the human world. Some times life sucks. The whole point is getting threw it, people who have never known adversity break on the first rocks of trouble. When you have had hard times and survived that point in your life becomes a wellspring of strength you are able to draw on in latter years. Don't go looking for a reason for it all, there is no rhyme or reason for life, we make our own reason and that is the whole point. We decide, we choose, and we live threw it.
2007-02-14 07:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by despairbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...Please never give up on life...you will have good time and bad times and we all have to take the good with the bad...Talking to God always helps me.....Its so hard to be a teenager.its like no one cares or understands u...We all have been there where u r right now....i think it makes us stronger......i have found this site u might want to read...i hope it will help u...Good Luck in your life and i wish for nothing but the best for the rest of your life.....if u need someone to talk to u can always IM me or email.im a good listener..*star*
2007-02-14 07:16:09 · answer #8 · answered by Starbright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard times build character. its easy to give up. but can be regrettable later. I have heard a hard beginning make a good ending. that have motivate me .find something positive and good to focus on. maybe your lacrosse coach can help.
2007-02-14 07:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by true 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best answer, try to talk to your parents.
Second best answer. Meet a lot of new people, you may find somebody that can help you..
2007-02-14 07:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋