I've met and fell in love with a guy for the longest time but things didnt work out and he's now long distance. I've tried to like other guys out there but it's just not the same, i can only think about him and dreamed of being with him, i know deep down he's the only guy for me, i've try to open up to him but it doesnt seem like he's willing to try and i'm having a hard time to accept the fact, im devastated..what makes him change his mind? (he once liked me too..)
2007-02-14 06:44:13 · 13 answers · asked by vanessa t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am sorry. It is not going to happen. Let it go, and move on.
2007-02-14 06:46:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you Honey? Cuz love takes time! Forget everything you thought you knew about love. Love just happens and you can't force someone to fall for you. When its really love, you will know cuz your feelings will be reciprocated! Love is not you pining away for someone who doesn't feel the same.
I tell my best friend this all the time, "pay attention to the phrases that you are using to describe your feelings". You say "I've TRIED, to like other guys". You say "I've TRIED, to open up to him". You say "It doesn't seem like he's willing to TRY". He once "liked" you. Not "loved". Stopping TRYING baby girl! You'll only end up with heartache that way.
I may know nothing myself, I'm only 23. But I do know, I'm not going to TRY to look for love, or TRY to fall in love, or TRY to get someone to fall in love with me. I'm just going to "LET IT HAPPEN"!
Good luck to you and everyone out there on this day of blah blah blah! Love! LOL!
2007-02-14 06:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST move on. I know it hurts pretty bad but you will feel so much better when you let it go. If he's not willing, than there is nothing you can do. It's not going to happen. Accept it and move on as hard as that is to hear.
2007-02-14 06:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is apparent that this would be a waste of your time to pursue. It takes two will participants in a relationship, not one. I believe that it is in your best interest to move on, no matter how difficult it may seem at first. There is too many men out there for you to be focused on this 'dead-end', 'one-sided' relationship.
2007-02-14 06:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon...I"m sorry, but there is nothing you can do to MAKE him fall in love with you. You can never MAKE someone fall in love with you. I know it hurts, trust me, I know from past experiences, but you will just have to learn to except that it probably won't happen if he isn't willing. Just keep praying and hoping and trusting, and try to drop hints to him and flirt a little. But if he isn't interested after a while, I say sorry honey, but no, it's not going to happen.
2007-02-14 06:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!! He's made it clear you are not the woman of his dreams, so why on Earth would you want a man like that? My man worships me, and that's the only way to have it. You don't want to force someone to love you, they should love you all on their own. Get over him and find someone who loves you the way you deserve.
2007-02-14 06:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bake him a cake with a million dollars lining the bottom of the cake pan
2007-02-14 06:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by james i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please email me with the way when you find it! seriously. you may not be open to anything new as you remain loving him. Time will sort it out if you also work hard to get on with real life
2007-02-14 06:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that sometimes the more unattainable a guy is the more perfect he seems lol.
2007-02-14 06:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him
2007-02-14 06:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋