I have 2 questions.......(1) is it possible for a man to say I love you to a woman so that he can get sex from her??? (2) how long after you met someone you like do you know you love them or are falling for them??? Do you guys fall in love eaisly???
2007-02-14 06:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im not a man but i had to answer this one..
First of all, YES TONSSSSSSSSS of men will say i love u just to get u in bed.. its the oldest trick in the book.. usually if a man is "quick" to say the "i love you" then thats because he has alterior motives.. love takes time its nothing that happens over night.. LUST is a different story .. u can look at someone and fall in "lust" with them.. it should be "lust at first sight, and not love at first sight.." because "REAL" love, takes time, love is a bond between people..and alot of people use love as if it was any other word.. and i dont think theres a time limit on when u fall in love with someone, it starts out with attraction, whether its physical or mental.. and then that turns into love over a certain period of time.. some it can take only a few months .. others it can take a year .. just depends on the people involved..
No guys do not fall in love easily.. remember these are "GUYS" they fall in 'LUST" easily, not love.. love actually means emotions, something most guys find hard to deal with..and to show..
2007-02-14 06:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight up - - - 1. A man will tell you that he loves you just to get you in the sack.
This doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you. He's just being a man. It takes time for a man to really love you. The longer he waits, the more he'll respect you. You need a man to respect you. Pressure for sex = zero respect. It needs to flow naturally.
Straight Up - - -2. Men are not as sentimental as women, so we don't "fall in love" easily. It's hard for a man to stick to one woman. What a guy wants today may not be what he wants next week. Next month. Next year. One thing that you can be sure of, your guy wants to be loved. But love is a two way street.
I hope this helps.
2007-02-14 14:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by ScubaKing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1)Yes, a man will say "I love you" to get laid. And (2) it would depend on the circumstances. Sometimes a person can be fooled by certain feelings, lust and passion, and think they are in love because these feelings are so strong. Then 8 years later, after you've figured out that the two of you really have NOTHING in common but sex, you find yourself passing them on the way to the kitchen and getting laid about twice a month, maybe more, sometimes less. I say for men, love is directly connected to our penis and when it gets bored, so do we. Now, love based on friendship, that's interesting...
2007-02-14 14:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by mixedup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying You love someone just to have sex would be very wrong on many levels. I haven't done it and wouldn't either. As for the time it would take for me to decide weather I was falling for them or not would be easy. I have dated many woman and after going out a few times (3 to 5 dates) I can tell if we have a connection or not. Usually after the second date I know if she is going to be worth the effort to ask her out again. As far as falling for someone I think it would take me around 10 to 12 dates before I would let my guard down and see if something was going on inside.
2007-02-14 15:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes.
2. Varies, but it generally doesn't take years or many months for a man to decide he loves a woman. At least it doesn't for me and never has.
3. Guys fall in "lust" and also become infatuated. Guys choose to love.
2007-02-14 14:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) uh, yeah. same thing with women - they'll say things (not necessarily LOVE) for the same reasons.
2) a month of time ought to at least lead you into the right direction.
3) yes we do fall in love easily, but it is rare and rarely lasting.
love and infatuation (lust) are VERY different for men and women. men need the external stimulation - women need the emotional. love is emotional, sex is external.
men turn sex into love, and women turn love into sex.
2007-02-14 14:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by flyddw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but us to say it just for the sex..4 months...no we do not fall in love easily.
2007-02-14 14:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by all we want is a 1 nite stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes
2. For me, it was about 5 months.
As for question 1, I haven't done that, but a lot of people do.
I don't know about "easily". That's a relative term, isn't it?
2007-02-14 14:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had to say I love you for sex.
2007-02-14 15:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we fall in "sex" easy. To say I love you just to get in your pants? naaaaawwwwwww how would ever do that?
2007-02-14 14:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋