I come on here and I talk about my rough night last night, and I thought I could handle RUM but I couldn't! I don't drink that freakin much anyway and I'm very responsible!!! If I'd known that RUM had 40 percent alchohol before I drank 8 ounces of it, I wouldn't have touched it!!
Well some person replied to my last question saying that I wanted my friend's boyfriend and I drank RUM as an excuse!!! That is not freakin true!!! Why are people so freakin judgemental of others when you don't even freakin know them!!!!!!!
Sure I take medications for medical problems, but I wait 12 hours after I take them before I even drink so that's not it!! I'm not an alchoholic nor a freakin harlot!!
So why are you people so freakin judgemental of people you don't know???
Hell I wasn't even hitting on her boyfriend!!
2007-02-14 06:38:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've had two glasses of wine on one occasion and all it did was make me hyper(appropriately).
I had beer once and one type made me hyper and the other made me dead tired.
2007-02-14 06:40:02 · update #1
id like to apologise on behalf of all the ppl hu say that type of stuff to you, your right, you dont deserve it, but dont worry, there are those out there who are here just to help - and to the rest, *^'*^ off!
x
2007-02-14 06:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hadnt seen your first question so not sure what was said to you. But I am going to address this question. I frankly am tired of people screaming about how judgemental people are. THERE ISNT ANYTHING WRONG WITH BEING JUDGEMENTAL. Infact, it should be practiced more often.
Maybe the reason you see these pages filled with every type of pervert, nut case, harlot, cheat and so forth, is because they havent been reigned or, made to feel like crap, cost much or been told they are bad or wrong or immoral.
There is nothing wrong with looking at people and how they act and then making a decision. Infact, that is just what The Bible tells you to do, if you bother to read it. Most of you with kids have told your kids to avoid______________ or stay away from_____________. Isnt that making a judgement and didnt you do your kids a favor for the most part?
Honestly, I think too many people want to be able to do just what they want, without ever being told or shown they are wrong or immoral. And hey, if they keep getting by with doing whatever and never have to pay the price or feel badly, why would they become better people?
2007-02-14 14:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you put yourself out there for advice you are going to get some that you don't like. Some people do judge too harshly. Sometimes people just want to get you upset. Some are calling you out because they think what you did is pretty bad. I didn't read your other question. But people base their answers off what info you give them and their own personal experiences. These people are strangers to you so why should it even matter what they think. All I can advise is if you can't handle what people are going to say then don't put yourself out their and ask for their advice.
2007-02-14 14:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its small minds
I'm a single mum of 3 and I recently posted a question as to how to get out and meet people as I haven't had a night out for a year,
This lass stated that I should not go out looking for a relationship and that I'm extremely selfish and I don't put my kids 1st.
Read it it's hysterical
2007-02-14 14:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its really sad but its expected. Your sharing your business with the world. And they are honestly telling you what they think. Maybe from what you told them thats what it sounded like to them. But is doesnt mean its true. Everyone has different opinions and a different state of mind. Also, some are childish and love to fu*k with people. I say just ignore them, Thats what I do! And it works! It really works!
2007-02-14 14:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You also asked a question about why it should be considered cheating to have sex with your friend behind your spouse/fiance's back?
Everyone is judgemental. We all are.
You are just WAY too foolish in your actions to see just about ANYTHING clearly. I read your other questions - your life is a mess.
Judgemental? Sure. Accurate? Probably.
2007-02-14 14:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there are people on here (as anywhere in the world) that are ignorant. But there are also nice, intelligent ones. I hope next time you get one of the good one's. Good luck
2007-02-14 14:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, don't take posts by total strangers (many of whom just want to yank your chain) so seriously. Geez, you don't know these people and they don't know you so stop giving so much weight to their words. It's not worth the ulcer you're giving yourself.
2007-02-14 14:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you did ask a question. I guess you need to be prepared for the answer. some of them your not going to like.
2007-02-14 14:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by dreamchaser225 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what people say because they're just tryna piss you off. let them act like idiots. keep doing your thing
2007-02-14 14:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by g13player 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋