im being bullied? what should i do?

Question

im 13 and being bullied by two 14-15 teens who, recently, bullied me by throwing snowballs at me while i was building a fort with my friend. these two teens have been told multiple times to stop and havnt. what should i do next time they cornor me? p.s. they have dun worse then throw snowballs....

Answer 1

you have to stand up for yourself dont be afraid of anyone and never let anyone touch you so if they throw snowballs at you throw them back or better yet knock em out and they'll get the picture and wont bother you anymore (not to be violent but sometimes thats what you have to do)

Answer 2

Try not to be by yourself, and try to act confident and stuff like that.

What bullies look for are victims. They don't want a fight - just victims. Make sure that you don't seem like a victim. If that doesn't work try to stick with people who can help you out. If you're cornered, try to talk yourself out first, don't get violent first.

And if there's violence, make sure it wasn't you who started it.

There's this triangle in bullying. There's the Bully, the Victim and the Opportunity. No bullying can be done if one of those three aren't there

e.g If there's no bully, nobody's gonna bully anybody....duh

If there's no victim, nobody's gonna get bullied

Bullies need an opportunity to bully somebody, like, they're by themselves, or you accidentally bump into them. If there's no opportunity then they can't bully you.


Honestly, I don't know what kind of advice to give at the moment. You need to describe what else these bullies do. If they're violent and stuff otherwise it will be harder to think up some exact ideas.

Just make sure you don't seem a victim and make sure your not alone or out of everybody else's sight.



Hope that helps ^_^

Answer 3

Bullies pick on people younger than them because they have nothing better to do than torment others....Don't be afraid of them! You build your fort, and the next time they corner you just say, YOU GUYS MUST BE REALLY PATHETIC IF YOU'RE BULLYING A KID YOUNGER THAN YOU FOR NO REASON. YOU SHOULD BOTH GET SOME LiVES. If they're girls and they hit you, knock their patheic selves out cold. If they're boys, tell an adult.

Answer 4

You should hang with a friends older sister or someone lke that when you go outside. Maybe if they see her with you guys they will back off. But make sure to tell the sister not to change sides and help the bullies. Also you should tell the other kids parents and tell them not to tell their kids so the bulling doesn't get worse. Or get a older boyfriend like older then them.

Answer 5

First off tell your parents. They can contact their parents to resolve this problem. If this does not work call the police and report them . You may end up benign seriously hurt by thees bullies. Try to avoid where they might be. If you have a cell phone have it handy to call for help.

Answer 6

This happened to my sister and I when we went sledding one time. My sister and I told the girl and her friends off, then made a quick escape on our sleds down the hill. Who are their parents? Do you know where they live?

Don't make forts by yourself either, have someone else with you. They are more unlikely to bother you if you have other people there. Your more vulnerable by yourself.

Answer 7

i have suffered several years of bullying and i feel for you.People will pick on people who they feel threatened by and more often than not it is unjustified.You need to tell somebody as this situation will get out of control, bullies often do not stop and will do anything to get you out of the way because they feel that you are different to them in some way, ignoring them does not help, do not fight back but do not stay quiet either

Answer 8

Stick up for yourself but not in the aggressive way if it does'nt work tell an adult like your parents and ask them to speak to the bullies parents. If it does'nt work getyour parents to stop it Now! even if it means getting police. Trust me it'llwork it happened to me!

Answer 9

I would tell them quit and tell someone to tell them. Such as my parents to talk to their parents. And who cares if they get mad that you went to their parents. Hey they started it. If that doesn't work threaten to call the police on them and do it if it happens. That's an assault and no one should put up with that. Sounds to me like these punk kids are losers and if they need to pick on someone who is younger than them they are Dumb. Good Luck and you need to physically defend yourself the next time u find yourself w/ these losers.

Answer 10

Try asking them what will they get from doing this and if it does not help. Talk to your parent about it before it's get out of hand. And try not walking alone by yourself have someone you walk with all the time.