Will people ever stop being so judgemental?

Question

I personally think that I am a pretty girl but unfortunately I am not a size 0 or 00, so already I am on the fast track to being unpopular. I wear a size 14 which isn't terrible (to me at least) but people still look at me like I am some fat, lazy, irresponsible person. What they don't know is that I ace all of my college classes, I have a wonderful marriage (despite my earlier questions) and I work out for an hour a day, seven times a week. Does anyone think people will revert back to caring about people because of who they are and what they're doing with their lives instead of what they look like?

Answer 1

There are lots of people who cannot revert back because they never stopped caring about what was important in the first place.

You don't need shallow people anyway, so why worry about it ?

As for the rest, they will stop when the media they so slavishly follow tells them that they need to be ashamed for being judgemental. In a billenium or 3.

Answer 2

I don't think the world will change anytime soon, the world will always be corrupted by something or someone. Humans are strange creatures we are very jealous. I know when I was young I thought I was the **** now I am 28 years old and I look back and say why did i say such things. Nobody in terms is better then anybody else. I believe we are here to love each other for who we are no matter what we may look like. I hate judging people because it's not right. I work in the field of loss prevention and Judging someone on camera is impossible unless you really go out on the salesfloor and see what there like. I was a nerd through middle school i felt like one I got picked on, We all want to better ourselves but sometimes we get in the wrong crowds, i sure did at one point but now I know better. I am not jealous why should I be I got the greatest boyfriend I could find.

Answer 3

Of course they won't stop. You shuold know that by now. Even if some do, not all will. You know, it's human nature to be judgemental. And why would you say "unfortunately" you're not a size 0. Who cares? I'm skinny, I've always been due to my metabolism and people still judge me saying I'm anorexic even though you can't even see my bones or rib cage. Skinny, normal, fat, or obese.....it doesn't matter, EVERYONE IS JUDGED. I know what it feels like to be judged, everyone does, but the thing is that everyone judges. I know I have and I know it's the wrong thing do it but can people help it? No. People say I look like a b**** when they don't even know me. Everywhere you go, prepared to be judged by your appearance. I know, it's sad isn't it?

Answer 4

America is too bored to ever stop their ridiculing and judgments on others, this country is very unhappy within itself and you know what they say, people who are unhappy with themselves put down others to make themselves feel better, also humans are extremely selfish beings who live only for their own greed. they do forget however, that Marylin Monroe was a size 14. :]

Smart people ignore the fact that humans act this way, and even though its hard, we try to not let what others think creep its way into our lives. We let go of a lot of stress that way. :] Its also good anger management and practice of self control to hold back from just pummelling somebodys face in when we see these actions surfacing in everyday life. :]

Answer 5

I feel for you. I hope there are many people out there that see further than what the eye meets but what's important is how you see yourself because if you feel positive, that energy flows into others subconsciously and is to your advantage. Loving yourself can only help you and there is a big difference between loving yourself and being selfish. Selfish people sometimes care about material things more than the real treasures in life that are really priceless and irreplaceable like love, health, and forgiveness. No one is perfect, we are all trying to manage and we all have are misgivings, regrets, and disappointments. Give yourself a break because no human has the right to judge you. Know you are loved unconditionally. Jesus didn't suffer and die for nothing, it was so we wouldn't have to. Give your worries to him for he promised never to leave or forsake you. You are BEAUTIFUL to me and I don't care what body you inhabit!!!!

Answer 6

Pay no attention to the shallow callous people that look down at you because of your looks. You sound like a smart girl with her crap together. There are plenty of caring considerate people out there. You just have to weed through all superficial people to find them. So don't get to downhearted. Keep doing what your doing with your head held high and those good positive people will find you.

Answer 7

I think in time they will, not everyone, but its depends on how the parents raise their children in the future. I think everyone is beautiful the way they are, and you should feel GREAT about yourself for all you have and are accomplishing. It hurts sometimes when people say or do some things they do,but you are better then them and all you need to care about is you and your family. The only way for people to become more caring is to meet more people like you, if you care about people then people will care about you.

Answer 8

No. As long as people continue to look different, act different, and think different, people will always be judgemental. If there is ever a day when people will be the same, then that will change, but it won't happen.

Answer 9

There are some petty people who will always be judgemental and shallow where they just look at you from the outside. But there will also be people who are nice, caring, and just look at you from who you really are--that you get good grades, you are a nice girl. Just don't mind them. Do your best, and they wont matter to you!

Answer 10

That only comes with maturity. And for some that maturity never comes. So no......people will always be judgemental. It's up to you to not care about what they think.