He keeps saying he misses me and wants to go back to that last 3 weeks we were dating so he could have more time with me. How he gets lonely and thinks about me when he has a bad day. I told him to stop making me feel gulity and how I can't change what happened. How I moved on and can't stand how he makes me gulity. I told him its not healthy for either of us. Help he is ruining my Valentines day! Everytime we talk all he does is say I miss you and makes me feel guility. Chris is acting like a beaten dog. im only 15 years old. What do I do?
2007-02-14 05:49:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell him to ride his emotional roller coaster all by himself. Frankly, you're dragging him on by keeping in communication with him. You two want different things out of your friendship/relationship and those things are not compatible at this point in time, so take some time apart, possibly forever.
2007-02-14 05:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him. If he stops you, say, " I can't right now, I have to be at so and so's by such and such time." If that doesn't work, tell him to leave you alone. Say it loud so that other people can hear you. If that doesn't work, get a restraining order against him. You are too young to be in a serious relationship and it sounds as if he is having a hard time moving on. The less attention you pay to him, the better it will be for the both of you.Don't feel sorry for him. That's how he wants you to feel.
2007-02-14 15:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call The Police And Get A Restranging Order If It Contuies
2007-02-14 15:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by nicnoo23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let Chris make you feel guilty/you cant live your life to suit him,its his problem if he is lonely tell him to find someone else or find a friend to talk to its your life and you only have one so go with the one that is best for you/this acting like a beaten dog is only for your benefit and will change if you ignore it,your young and should not feel made to go with someone out of pity,just think of the time you are waisting when you could be enjoying yourself//you cant help him he must do that himself
2007-02-14 14:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck, I hate crying babies, it seems like you got a sticky situation. I dated that type of guy before and I learned my lesson, I had to change my email address, phone number and call the police on that guy I dated. Since those type of men got no talents and no way to take care themselves that's the only why they know to get a girlfriend( by cling on to you). A real man shouldn't have to use this method!!
2007-02-14 14:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to leave you alone and after that don't talk to him at all. if he does not listen to this then tell him that you are going to call the police if he continues to do this to you. if you have moved on then there is no reason to go back with him. he is not worth your time and effort. sometimes people like your ex have to learn the hard way. i speak from experience. i have people in my family who are the same way. if they don't learn the hard way they do not learn. do what you have to do to stop this and do not feel bad about it. he is never going to stop unless you make him. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-14 13:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about. My ex Paul is doing the same thing, I am in this wonderful relationship with Matt and aul says how he misses me and loves me. I tr t ignore him. Ignore him because you dot need someone like that i our life. Good luck hope everything works out for you.â¥
2007-02-15 06:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him.
Don't take his phone calls, don't give him any more of your time. That only makes him think he has a chance of getting you back again. This guy craves your attention because that makes him feel as though he still has some kind of hold over you.
The best breakups are
*Quick,
*Clean,
*Polite,
and most importantly,
*FINAL.
2007-02-14 13:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Guernica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to him, and i'm sure you guys are in the same school so when you see him coming go the other way, dont answer your phone or change your number, if he still dont get the point get a restraining order on his a** he'll get scared and leave you alone for sure.
2007-02-14 15:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mrspaul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By talking with him you are giving him hope. The fact that you say you feel guilty means, to him, that you feel YOU made a mistake. Don't answer his calls and don't stop to talk with him.
2007-02-14 13:55:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ernie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋